please suggest me what should i do? please suggest me about any abortion pill, i am working women thatswhy its not easy to go for surgical abortion. please suggest me what cani do for this abortion
2007-03-23 01:11:21 · 21 answers · asked by surbhi t 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Oh honey, they're going to eat you alive here. I don't believe the morning after pill is going to help you at this point: that's not an abortion pill. It simply prevents your egg from nesting in your womb so the pregnancy doesn't happen. If you're deadset on having an abortion it's going to have to be surgical, and it should be done as soon as possible. Another option would be to have the baby and put it up for adoption. Or you could have the baby and keep it. There are many single mothers who work too. I know it's not easy: none of your choices here are going to be easy. I'd advise you to double or triple up on the birth control, but I'm sure there are more than enough people that are going to tell you that too, and it's a little late to preach this time. Good luck with whatever decision you make - make sure it's one you can live with forever.
2007-03-23 01:17:27 · answer #1 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
There are risks to the pill and surgical abortions- the pill puts you into labor- and then you come back to the dr. (hopefully make it in time) and you deliver your baby- your hormones will be messed up for a very long time- You may not want to be a mom- but you are already- the moment your child is conceived you are considered a mother. Place your child for adoption. I could have been a victim of abortion- however my birth mom chose life for me. You will always remember taking the life of your child. This decision will not fix the problem. The child did not ask to be conceived-
Please reconsider- I would not want anything to happen to you either- I know that things do happen- especially long term grief etc- because I counsel women who are pregnant and women who have had abortions. Email me if you would like too. By the way , I just want to say that the Morning after pill will not be effective right now- but for those who say it does not cause an abortion- you are wrong- it can- also there is another pill type of abortion they use- it is what I explained at the beginning of my answer.
2007-03-23 05:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by AdoreHim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is way too late for the morning after pill, that has to be taken within 72 hours of conception....but you should speak with a doctor about your options. And as far as having the baby before you are ready...It is your body and ultimately your decision. Everyone is quick to pass judgement but at the end of the day it all comes down to what you feel is best for you.
Just if you do decide to terminate, invest in some Birth Control Pills.
Take care sweetie and good luck.
2007-03-23 06:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is too late now for you to take a morning after pill(the abortion pill). You only have 3 options... either have the baby and raise it, have the baby and give it up for adoption or have a surgical abortion.
Speak with a doctor regarding your options and he will be able to explain everything in detail to you.
Good luck.
2007-03-23 01:19:41 · answer #4 · answered by MELISSA B 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Then why didn't you take the precautions to prent becoming pregnant in the first place?! You have been given a child. Don't be a selfish immature twit! Have the child and give him/her up for adoption. There are so many people here on a 7 year waiting list for a child. Give someone the gift of a family. If all you can think about is yourself then giver the child the gift of family with someone else. Abortion is not an option. I don't agree with it. it is the most selfish thing a woman can do is to kill a child. If you are not ready to be a mom keep your pants on!
2007-03-23 01:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by Stefbear 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I am with the last poster. Also do you realise that your baby's heart has started to beat. You have a miniture human being inside you. Please don't kill him/her. Also, you are bound to suffer post-abortion syndrome later, when you calculate how old your child would have been etc. Some women have suicided over this. There is also a link between abortion and breast cancer. There is also the possibility that you won't be able to conceive when you are ready to be a mom (it happened to my cousin).
I hope and pray you do the right thing. Good luck.
2007-03-23 01:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't get an abortion....deal with it! If you were responsible enough to have sex (whether protected or unprotected), then you are responsible enough to care for a child. If not, don't be selfish in having an abortion...give the child up for adoption.
2007-03-25 18:44:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please consider another option. Adoption is a great alternative. There are women out there who would love to adopt your baby. There are many consequences to both you and your baby if you have an abortion of any kind. Women deserve better than abortion! Even if you can't care for the child, please give someone else the chance to and don't subject yourself to such a terrible procedure.
http://feministsforlife.org/
http://www.nrlc.org/
2007-03-23 01:20:06 · answer #8 · answered by curious 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Please reconsider the abortion. Many go through terrible depression and regret for years to come after the abortion. If you are not ready there are families that would love to adopt. Please think about this for a while, you do not have to make a decision right now.
best of luck to you
2007-03-23 01:19:27 · answer #9 · answered by samira 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You people disgust me. Why were you having sex enough to get pregnant? You are a working woman?? Who gives a flying f*ck! You have a living baby inside of you and you're just looking for an easy way out by killing it. Can't you be a little less selfish and carry the baby for 8 more months and give the baby up for adoption?? Why is killing the baby the only option in your mind!!
2007-03-23 01:23:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋