this answers thing is like a blessing for me. ladies esp those who aare pregnant and have been pregnant, is it uncomfortable to have sex whilst pregnant. i stopped sleeping with my fiance about 4 months into the pregnancy...i am just wondering if it will harm her or will be uncomfortable for her to have sex now. i know she is the best person to ask but her moods wont allow me to ask at all. i have been trying not to really think about sex but it is getting harder everyday. will it be inconsiderate to ask her for sex.she is 7 months and two weeks.
2007-03-23 00:19:06 · 21 answers · asked by kwabral y 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Well I became very very interested in sex for a few months then when I was around 7 months it just got uncomfortable, & too much work. Although I still maintained a sex life of twice a week. I found if you do it doggy style or her laying on her side with one leg up is very comfortable and pleasurable. You won't hurt the baby although you might want to stay away from agressive sex. This is the best time to explore new positions. If she does say no then just wait for a few days and try again. Pregnant womens mood changes from one minute to the next but Im sure you have that figured out by now. Good Luck
2007-03-23 00:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it can be uncomfortable && sometimes it's not. But really you should ask your fiance. My boyfriend and i still have sex and we're 6 months pregnant.
If you two do have sex some positions that would be more comfortable for your fiance are.
Here are some time-tested positions and tips for making love while you're pregnant: (this is talking to a woman, so read it to where it'd be talking to a male. )
• Lie sideways. Having your partner on top demands increasingly creative gymnastics as your tummy swells. But lying partly sideways allows your partner to keep most of his weight off your uterus.
• Use the bed as a prop. Your bulge isn't an obstacle if you lie on your back at the side or foot of the bed with your knees bent, and your bottom and feet perched at the edge of the mattress. Your partner can either kneel or stand in front of you.
• Lie side-by-side in the spoon position, which allows for only shallow penetration. Deep thrusts can become uncomfortable as the months pass.
• Get on top of your partner. It puts no weight on your abdomen and allows you to control the depth of penetration.
• Have your partner enter you from a sitting position, which also puts no weight on the uterus. Try sitting on your partner's lap as he sits on a sturdy chair.
Have faith — where there's a will, there's a way. With a little experimenting, you and your partner are sure to find a technique that works for you.
There are also other ways to be intimate without actually being physically intimate. =] Take Care
if you want more information, a good link for you to look at is below.
2007-03-23 00:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by Kiri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband asks all the time.
Sex can be great during pregnancy and my personal experience is great most of the time. Ther can be times when it is uncomfortable but I think that depends on where the baby is lying. It is not harmful for the baby unless your doctor has advised against sex then there is no reason why you cant.
Take it slowly and enjoy it. She needs to find a postion that is best for her.
I found that the last few months I wanted sex ALL the time so you might find that her hormones are all over the place and she might start asking you for sex.
Be patient and enjoy the ast 2 months.
2007-03-23 00:24:39 · answer #3 · answered by entertainer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No harm will come of having sex now and there are ways to stop it being uncomfortable.
I think it's fair enough that you are keen to have sex when you haven't for 3 months.
You should definitely talk to her now, because it is only going to get worse, then you can't have sex for 6 weeks afterwards, so that's going to be a long time without unless you sort it out now.
You just need to get her in the mood. Offer her a massage, and see where it leads!
I am 8 months and still having sex with my hubby, although not quite as much as we used to!
2007-03-23 00:28:40 · answer #4 · answered by Ricecakes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever reason you have that caused you to stop sleeping with her it's not because you are concerned that it might harm her. It sounds like you got her pregnant against her wishes and now she is really pissed about it and won't let you near her. If she is that mad about it that you can't even ask her then you have a big problem on your hands, and it will only get worse. It wouldn't hurt her at all to have sex while pregnant, it's just that she is so angry she does not want to have anything to do with you. Things will continue to go downhill from now on, ad she may never want your paws on her again.
If she is interested in other women and wants to be with other women it is hard for her to maintain that she wants women when it is now quite obvious that she has been with a man. So now any potential female lover she might want to pick up might shun her because her belly is blowing up like a balloon, and a true lesbian would be unlikely to have this problem. I'd say you've ruined her lesbian sex life and she is holding that against you. By the way, she was probably slurping nookie on the side from the very beginning of your relationship, you just didn't know it.
2007-03-23 00:27:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Its not uncomfortable if you get the right position but some women experience a total loss of sex drive. Lots of foreplay was good to get me in the mood when I was pregnant but I always urged my partner to be gentle. It seems sometime no matter how many times people say its safe you still like to be extra careful!
2007-03-23 02:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by snowball_2328 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is fine during pregnancy providing you both feel up to it...well ok to be honest as long as she feels up to it...but judging by your other posts she wont be up to it any time soon...especially if you keep calling her fat...lol...
Personally I think if I had to give up sex while pregnant I would go bonkers...it helps relax me and helps me sleep...not to mention its a closeness with my partner and this is essential for me...
Chances are if you had a healthy sex life before she fell pregnant then she is probably feeling a little rejected because you havent had sex in so long. This coupled with the "F" word has probably left her feeling pretty low about herself...I can only sugguest you become a more loving and attentive husband...
2007-03-23 00:29:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anastasia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
8 months and OH MY DEAR GOD!! if i culd get laid i wuld! lol. it depends of the women in question, i mean, is she huge? i look like i'm about 6 months pregnant so im tiny, but if ur lovely lady looks 7 months gone then it might b. i hear missionary is no longer a option cuz the bump, and apparently doggys the best.
try just turning her on, u kno, lil back massarge with sented oils, soft music, low lightling etc, then she'll either tell u 2 bugger off or pounce on ya. plus...if shes gettn braxton hicks sex is the best cure...
2007-03-23 01:58:38 · answer #8 · answered by evilbunnyhahaha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to be worried if it will hurt her or the baby. The answer to both is no it won't. There are positions that are more comfortable for her like on her side or on all fours. It won't hurt the baby as the uterus is shock resistant. Just ask her it's not inconsiderate for you to want to have sex with her.
2007-03-23 00:25:59 · answer #9 · answered by bvan_25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 8 months pregnant & have had a very active sex life the whole way though & still very much now. As long as my doctor doesnt ban me from it i will probably carry on until I go in to labour, it is good for you. Helps your muscles practice for contractions etc. It is perfectly safe as long as your doctor has not forbid it.
2007-03-23 00:28:56 · answer #10 · answered by Gemma 27.05.2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋