i only reassured her that she was even nicer as a fat girl.i agree i should not have repeated the word fat but what was i supposed to do when i was expecting a smiling woman and then got a grumpy screaming one.
2007-03-23 00:14:51 · 13 answers · asked by kwabral y 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Oh dear you have alot learn what women say and what we mean are not the same thing. Some definitions below that might help you in the future.
Yes - No
No - Yes
Maybe - No
We need - I want
I am sorry - you'll be sorry
We need to talk - you're in trouble
Sure, go ahead - you better not
Do what you want - you will pay for this later
I am not upset - Of course I am upset,
You're very attentive tonight - Is sex all you think about
2007-03-23 00:36:02 · answer #1 · answered by bez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what you do with a hormonal woman, you can't do right from wrong! And after the birth it will be even worse! So get yourself prepared. Tell her that you will not put up with this and from now, although you will be supporting her, you are not willing to discuss any 'problems' she may have because you know that nothing you say or do will make her inadequacies right. If she sulks, let her sulk, you can always go out or stay at a friend's house. That'll teach her that although she is hormonal, she can't be doing this to people, she's got to have a little self-control. Just give her the care she needs, e.g. cook for her or reach for things you know she can't, or cut her toenails etc. but do not discuss her problems with her. Tell her to talk to her mates or her mother.
2007-03-23 00:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by Infinity C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beyoncé isn't fat in any respect, purely very curvy. i'm not a guy yet i'm helpful maximum men prefer a curvy female to a stick skinny one. Stick skinny isn't healthful and that is scientifically shown that a small volume of fat ensures you a fit longer existence than no fat in any respect. And Beyoncé has purely the suited volume! Your chum is incorrect. purely verify out all the tabloids that talk approximately B's warm bod!
2016-10-19 10:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by scafuri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her some flowers tell her she is not fat but she has more curves a bit like Beyonce or J Lo and tell her she looks great.... oh and maybe you could give herm oney to shop for new clothes for these new found curves then maybe she will forget you said it in about a year but she will always remeber you said it. Dont look at any other women for at least six years when your with her...lol good luck
2007-03-23 00:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by smitters06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the word fat is only ever acceptable when used with the word 'not' in front of it.
Even if she only ever refers to herself as fat from now on, never ever say she is fat. Even if she clearly is. Never ever call a woman fat unless you want a slap.
Tell her you find her really sexy pregnant and that maybe that's because it makes you feel virile, but you think she looks fantastic and very womanly and fertile, and that appeals to your caveman nature.
That way she won't think you are saying it just to be nice. She'll just think you are a bloke, which is forgivable!
2007-03-23 00:23:06 · answer #5 · answered by Ricecakes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you've learnt from your mistake. Women are usually quite self-concious about their bodies, and in particular very touchy about perceived weight problems.
If at all possible, avoid the topic.
2007-03-23 00:35:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just cuz u sed fat...i kno i ain't fat but i'd still turn in 2 a screaming banshee if sum1 called me fat! just tell her she holds the weight well in future! lol.
i understand where ur cming from tho. we women are a strange creature, but did u kno men are worse?!?!?!
2007-03-23 02:00:20 · answer #7 · answered by evilbunnyhahaha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~chuckles~ you have dug yourself a very very deep hole...I hope for your sake she will let you climb out of it sometime this century...lol
When a pregnant woman calls herself fat she wants you to reassure her that shes not fat..shes pregnant and her womanly curves are beautiful...heck...if my hubbie agreed with me every time i called myself fat he would be in that hole with you and not allowed out till he was 50...he just reassures me that Im not fat...Im pregnant and that Im carring very important cargo in my tummy...lol
2007-03-23 00:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anastasia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats life for you. Most women are deranged psychopaths who cause mayhem if they dont get everything their own way. Just let her go mad and she'll came down in a few days
2007-03-23 00:18:44 · answer #9 · answered by Sean D 3 · 4⤊ 3⤋
That's life mate!
2007-03-23 00:30:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋