I need help, do i tell my mum that her son is gay or not?

Answer 1

No leave it up to him to tell her when he is ready

Answer 2

I agree with some others that it's hard to tell who it is who's gay here but the person who is gay should tell her. It can be extremely hard, especially if you don't know what her opinion is on that sort of thing but she will be ok about it. In my opinion decent people should all respect honesty so if your mum is a nice & good person she will be glad that she knows. And it is also much easier, and more credible, when it is heard "straight from the horse's mouth", so to speak, so if it is not you who's gay then you shouldn't tell her, the one who is gay should. Hope that all makes sense! Good luck!!

Answer 3

If you are the one that is gay yes be honest with her. She may be mad at first but she will learn to love you no matter what. If it was my son it would really surprise me but I would still love him. He is my son now my husband would have a harder time with it but I would help him to come around and I am sure you mother would do the same. Good Luck

Answer 4

If you are the son then tell her, She loves you and, if she hasnt any idea already, she will still love you. It may take her some time to get used to the idea but she will get there in the end. If you are not the son, then dont say anything, leave it to him.

Answer 5

If you are her son and it's you that's gay then yes, you should tell her. If you are someone else that knows her son is gay and he's not told her, then no, you need to keep quiet and let him tell her when he's ready - it's none of your business.

Answer 6

it depends on the personality of the mother if she is so closed to the son and she has elasticity 2 face shocks so go ahead but it will b more easier if u think well about the gay son and god and death and all these stuff before being proud 2 b gay (cause its chaim and so dirty )

Answer 7

Are you your mother's son?

You might be quite suprised. Mothers have a way of knowing these things anyway. It might come as a huge relief for her to know that her son has realised it for himself.

If you are not the Gay son you are referring to then I believe you should keep out of it. Its none of your business.

Answer 8

No, No, NO. You're Mother's son tells her whether he's gay or not. This is not your's to tell. When he's ready, when he chooses, he will tell her. If you do tell, and you truly love your brother, you will hurt him deeply.
Is all that hurt worth 5 minutes of gossip.

Answer 9

Hi, I think you should why not, if that was one of my kids I would rather them be honest with me than to live a lie in front of me. You are their son, they will still love you. There might be some confusion and alot of questions but you need to expect that right. Just try and break it to them, so you don't have this hangin over your head too much longer.

Chow.

Answer 10

No - let him tell her himself, mums have a weird sixth sense when it comes to their kids so she would have probably already had an idea that he needs to get something off his chest. And it will be much better for you if you don't interfere.

Answer 11

I'm not clear on whether or not you're talking about yourself or a brother but it's difficult question to answer as i don't know your mum and how she would react, that has to be a personal decision and if it's about your brother leave it up to him but just be there for him when he makes his choice