Am I a transsexual?

Question

I alway image myself a female, and also image sex with man, and have sex excitement, In my early year, I start to wanted to be beautiful like other girls, and alway wear female clothes, am I a transsexual?
But I alway heard that transsexual haven't sex excitement, so am I just a crossdresser ?

Sometime I hate being male very much, but sometime I seem no problem, and also sometime when I see other girls (or just female), I will very unhappy and cry, and ask myself why I'm not a woman, but on the other hand, I like to see other female, so I alway think I'm so abnormal and very unhappy, how can I be happy?

Answer 1

no one can tell you are a transsexual it is something you have to feel
and before you run off and start a radical change i vote you read up on the subject a bit and ask the question of your self
who am i ?
where do i wish i was in life ?
and five years from now who am i?
these are two of a few online test you can get answers from

http://transsexual.org/test0.html...

http://community.sparknotes.com/gender/...


and some other sites that may help you research what it is you may be all these sites have links to other sites and can be a good start to finding out how to become the person you want to become

http://transsexual.org/
http://www.gendercentre.org.au/mtf_links...
http://www.tsroadmap.com/
http://www.tgfolk.net/sites/satsg/hrt.ht...
http://www.annelawrence.com/twr/...

yes i am a m2f pre op transsexual and if you need to talk to some one i might be able to help if you want to

Answer 2

Do you hate being male? Most transsexuals are very unhappy with their biological sex. It sounds to me like your just a crossdresser, however what I think doesn't matter, it is what you think. One of the ways you could find out is by talking to a therapist who specalizes in gender issues, they have dealt with alot of people who transition, and even more who don't, and can help you better understand yourself.

Best of luck whatever you decide to do.

Answer 3

If you're unhappy being biologically male then you're a transsexual. If you don't mind being male but are into all that girly stuff, then you're a crossdresser. I really simplified my explaination, but that's basically the truth of the matter. Also, being trans does not mean that someone has 0 sexual desire. I am very much into having intimate relationships and I'm trans.

Answer 4

First and foremost go get a therapist, try your best to get one with experience. Myself I am in a small town and when I started I found ZERO experience in my area so I search for an open minded therapist who I could trust. When I contact all the therapist in my area I made sure to ask key questions like "Do you considers your self open minded?" if so then " How do you feel about labels such as Transsexuals, Cross dressers, and Transvestites?", soon I found this great girl who helped allot and understand. At first it is scary but right now stop thinking about labels and start to find who you are inside and discuss how you feel with a good trustworthy therapist who is there to help you. Sure you might be transsexual or cross dresser but only you know and you better make sure you are happy with who you are. It took me many years to finally have the courage to be myself, during that confusion time I knew deep down I was always transsexual but I made 100% SURE by communicating and getting all the knowledge I could on the subject as it is my life and I needed to be happy. Now after I look back I am very happy with who I am and the stress of daily hiding is over, I have lost weight, very positive outlook on things, and all in all just plain old HAPPY and trust me it is worth making your self happy as others will notice and love having you around. Best of luck in search of finding your inner self and please get on the phone ASAP and get a-hold of a good therapist in your area.

Answer 5

Transsexuals can certainly have sexual excitement. You should get into therapy to decide whether or not to change your sex though. It is a huge step to take!

Answer 6

You are really a crossdresser, but good luck to you if decide to become a female.

Answer 7

you are not a transexual until you have had surgery to form your genitals to the opposite genders.. my guess is you are transgender.
Transgender is the state of one's "gender identity" (self-identification as male, female, both or neither) not matching one's "assigned gender" (identification by others as male or female based on physical/genetic sex). Transgender does not imply any specific form of sexual orientation — transgender people may identify as queer, heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, pansexual or asexual.