need help?
i love a grl frm our class ( 9th class ) who of the same age as mine (14). we have been friends from 8 years, and my close frndship has turned into love for her.
i cant imagine myself widout her at all...
nxt year after school, we have 2 part, nd i keep getting worried.
what shud b my nxt step? i dont want her 2 think i'm bad and leave me, cuz her frndship is very imp. she is sooooo nice
my feelings arent sexual at all
i donno watta do.....
if i get 2 kno her feelings, at least i'll have peace of mind
i love her soooooo much
pls, help
there are 2 things i am worried about
1) telling her now may mean loss of her frndship if she gets angry and rejects
2) telling her later, i mean keeping it 4 later may b'cm too late
which is better?
2007-03-23 00:02:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You should definitely tell her what you feel! If you don't, you'll end up living a life wondering what could have happened. At least if you tell her, there could be a chance that she might like you too!
2007-03-23 00:07:05 · answer #1 · answered by Galadriel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you guys have been friends for so long I'm sure you guys talk about anything and everything. When she's in a good mood just say" What would you say If I said I like you? If she has a angry or rejected face then turn it into a joke. Like you were practicing on her to ask another girl. If she seems happy then go from there. Good Luck
2007-03-23 07:09:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
James just be honest with her, honesty is the best way to keep a friend. Tell her how you feel about her. Tell her you value her friendship and don't want to hurt her but you have to be honest that you think more of her as a girlfriend and not just a friend.
2007-03-23 08:20:58 · answer #3 · answered by Georgia Preacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her how you feel...the same thing is going on with me right now...but with a guy..i mean he is like my brother and now that we talk alot..i had started to like him and noticed that all he talked about was the girls he likes.. so i noticed that we are just better off friends and we are still tight like usual.......he never found out i liked him and i think it was for the best....but if she isn't going out with anybody and you think that maybe she has the same feelings for you then go for it!!!!!
2007-03-23 08:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel! If she is a true friend she won't push you away! Don't keep your feelings bottled up you might regret not telling her in the end!
2007-03-23 07:47:59 · answer #5 · answered by sarah2mee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have said this before. LOVE is NOT just a FEELING!!! It is a decision. A LIFE-LONG decision. A decision to put that person's needs in front of your own, to care for that person REGARDLESS of what they do or how they do it, for LIFE!!!
2007-03-26 13:27:49 · answer #6 · answered by ilovepoison2820 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her you care her.there are so many ways to keep in touch without being in touch physically.you can phone,e mail or chat. if you really like her does not matter you can still love.and enjoy your friendship..
2007-03-23 07:49:24 · answer #7 · answered by raaj1111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its better to tel her than to loose her, so go and tell her.
All the Best.
2007-03-25 17:43:04 · answer #8 · answered by singh_kv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face it, you want sex with her. Satisfy your urges in some other way, then enjoy the friendship that will folllow.
2007-03-23 07:09:28 · answer #9 · answered by Malcolm 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
tell her what u feel
2007-03-23 07:36:08 · answer #10 · answered by debbies daughter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋