somebody can tell me how!!!
2007-03-22 23:47:18 · 12 answers · asked by joanna michelle m 1 in Travel ➔ Asia Pacific ➔ Philippines
ignoring a person will not work. you have to decide if you want to totally get rid of that person in your life. three years is a long time to adjust without that person in your life but if you are determined to eliminate him from your life... you can do it. first, you have to decide if you really want this person out of your life. then, act on it. this will take a lot of your courage coz you can't just throw away three years that you spent with him. give yourself time for time heals everything. love yourself and move on... meet new friends and think of something new that you can do to keep your mind and body busy. like joining charity works or any community or organization that will help you focus on something else. take care and good luck!
2007-03-23 08:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by Lola 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before going further ask yourself..
'is this what i really want to do? '
if you answered yes then good luck ignoring~
You can either don't answer calls
delete messages
delete everything about that ex-vip
2007-03-23 07:20:57 · answer #2 · answered by 96~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i usually was just totally ignore everthing about them...i.e dont return calls, emails offers to hang-out etc.
the reasoning was there was always something they said or did that totally annoyed me. so instead of being an adult and telling them...i pussed out and took the low road.
it mite not be right but it seemed right at the time
2007-03-23 14:17:03 · answer #3 · answered by carlos l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(wow, first time i saw a 'relationship' problem in Y!A Phils)
anyway, you must:
1) make a decision to not talk to him and stick to it
2)avoid any opportunities, events that you might see him
3) meet new people, divert your attention to someone else
4) get a life - that is, minus that ex-vip
2007-03-23 11:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by Tammy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know all you have to do is disguise yourself or just go anywhere you want that the person you don't like couldn't find you or joust ignore him/her
2007-03-25 08:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by NoMad87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try some diversional activities that interest you to keep your mind away from that VIP of yours until you get used to it & finally move on. Good luck. (--,)
2007-03-23 08:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
1)change sim card
2)go on a long vacation
3)change address
2007-03-23 06:51:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
make yourself busy and go out with friends.
2007-03-23 07:56:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Just act as if you don't care.
2007-03-23 06:50:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should be asking Dear Abby not ask in a philippines Q&A
2007-03-23 07:29:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋