Me and husband haven't had sex for 3 years now. Everytime I try to seduce him, he simply just laugh about it, or worst ignore me. Message is clear that he doesn't want to have sex with me anymore which is a problem because I want his baby. We've been married for 6 years. I am not fat, as I'm only 25 years old, about 5 ft and 90 lbs. He is 55, 5'10 and 200 lbs. I asked him a few times why he doesn't get a ***** anymore and all he'd say is that maybe it's because he has bad back. But sometimes, he'd say he'd get a ***** if I submit to his fantasy which is sex from behind or best describe as anal sex. And there is no way I would do that. I am getting unhappier because I want to have kids with him. I can't leave him for someone else because he is actually a good person and I feel so secure with him. On the other hand, he wouldn't want to move with me to the city because he love country life and me grew out of it. He claim he loves me but why is he willing to me go?please i need ur input
2007-03-22 23:33:22 · 4 answers · asked by young_and_miserable 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am not ready to throw away our marriage for a few reasons, though I married him in the first place for convenience but I learned to love him and I don't think I can stand on my own feet being dependent on him for the last 5 yrs..and im from a different country, and living out in the country or rural area.. its realy hard not having friends and family around that's why I want to move to the city, so that I can get a job as well. But he'd rather let me go than give the life I want. He said he understand that I'm young and I should be enjoying life, so if I'm not happy I should go I have his blessing.. So I only have 2 option here, to leave or keep walking with his lifestyle. What's your honest opinion about my situation?
2007-03-23 02:35:01 · update #1
Honestly, I think he's gay. I don't mean to say it as an insult or anything. But he doesn't want sex with you unless you do it from behind??? That is just ridiculous. You need to leave him and I bet sooner than later you will find someone that actually WANTS you for you and everything that comes with you. You shouldn't be afraid to start all over. It is going to be the best experience of your life. You are still very young. Come on, get your life REALLY started!!! You deserve to be happy!
2007-03-23 03:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by luvmrtnz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that your getting up the @ss without the benefit of lube.Sex is a very important part of marriage and if your not getting any try counseling.
2007-03-23 01:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by Boston Mark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like both of you need to sit down and talk this out
2007-03-23 04:23:19 · answer #3 · answered by jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need a child from him?
leave him,
2007-03-23 00:41:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋