for example, if you are a guy and currently living with your parents and younger sister, will you move out when u're married? or you'll live with your family forever to take care of them? thank you
2007-03-22 23:26:26 · 13 answers · asked by Calvin J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It depends if they depend on you to take care of them or not in my opinion. if they are capable of it then you should move out and even if they aren't capable of taking care of themselves you can still move close by maybe down the street or a few blocks away. That way you can still be close and take care of them but you can also have privacy with your wife.
(ps Calvin J is my fiance's name we're having our first baby in November.. just thought Id share lol)
2007-03-23 19:33:59 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Sarah♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of cultures where married couples live with the family. Housing availability is also an issue.
If it is a western culture though, in general, if you have not lived alone you will not be ready for marriage.
Westerners believe in pushing the birds out of the nest.
A level of independence is required.
2007-03-23 00:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband was not living with his mom and dad when he married me BUT he moved in this area with me when he did and he had not left that area he was living in before that. Now my husband and i have built a family and a life here and we see his family and parents as much as we can. You should move out when you marry and your wife a children will become your family and you will be the father in that situation. yes you still love your mom and dad and siblings BUT you also start a new family and life as well. You do not need to live with your family forever to take care of them but you can help them here and there and visit and help them as often as you can. When you marry you are to live with and take care of your wife and new family. My mom who is older now lives with both my husband and i in our home and we help take care of her. She is a widow and we make sure she is safe and ok. WE did not move in with her though she moved in with us and has her own room and privacy. My marriage and my husband is still very good and strong and we have a great life because of it.
2007-03-22 23:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 18 right now, recently got out of HS this last year, so I am still living with my -parent- (for obvious reasons).
But yes, no one, man or woman, should live with their parents when they're married, heck, they shouldn't be living with their parents if they're engaged. Although to be honest I'd be surprised if a guy got engaged while they were still living with their parents, they'd have to have a pretty good reason.
2007-03-22 23:31:42 · answer #4 · answered by Himizu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So long as your family is secure and safe without you around, then leave, but not too far though, coz you'd want to be there to help them and care for them whenever you can. I plan to get married in 1-3 years time (I'A) I for one will move out, because of lack of space in my current house, but take my mother with me after some time sorting out my finances (that is if my other brothers lose to me). But don't forget about you're family, especially you're mum, she raised you man, never forget you're mum, they cared for us when we were helpless...
2007-03-22 23:55:16 · answer #5 · answered by MU.SK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calvin, you keep asking this question, and keep getting the same answers. It's time to move out, my friend. Your parents are young, healthy and employed. The family you need to be concerned with is your wife and child. You could lose them if you don't put them first. Good luck!
2007-03-23 04:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by Tiss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Advocacy of emotions is a problems in most of the cases as with u. Speaking and expressing objectively never spoils a relationship. Try to make your friends as family friends. Discuss all the subjects including sexual behavior of man and woman, personal desires and dreams and your internal struggle with your sensations, etc....
2007-03-23 00:08:10 · answer #7 · answered by bhaskarshodh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the conduction of the parents, and the conductions that the couple are in, most would say yes i want to move out and start my own life with my mate, BUT for unknown reasons some my stay and help the parents....hard to call
2007-03-22 23:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by bluelitttt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-03-22 23:51:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i a dad of 4 boys , 2 are married, an did molve out, but found it was harder than they thought, one even bought a house, but with in a year both son that was married , move back with their wife, an kids,,,,, the oldest sait , he got so use to the noise here, he could not live with out it lol,,,, the other said he miss his mom cooking ,lol so we start off with 6 kids, now with them back,,,got 11 kids here now ,lol... an you know i still add on to my house,lol... but honest i love all my kids an dan in law, an the grand babbies,,, hugs
2007-03-22 23:36:07 · answer #10 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋