i am confused. i have no body to talk to. please can you help me to outline what the problem is. and what do i do in this situation as i am emotional down.
2007-03-22 23:25:58 · 14 answers · asked by lady love 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry for you. I have had the same problem. I used to put all the blames on me , but after 2 years marriage, I realised that my husband has a habit of porn and masterbating.
Good luck in finding what's wrong with him. But never blame yourself
2007-03-22 23:38:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I'm more concerned with is the time its been. I leaning towards its something medical but I don't know for sure.
Has he seen a doctor, will he go. Try and get him to go if he refused. As for yourself you need to find a professional to talk to about your problem.
Look in your local area under mental health, some places even have a sliding scale to what you make. Even if your husband doesn't want to go, go by yourself. Good luck.
2007-03-22 23:53:41 · answer #2 · answered by Ruthie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked him? Did you try to seduce him and he turned you down?
16 months is along time.
He could be in love with someone else.
He could be un attracted to you.
He could be gay?
Or is he older? Could he be having problems getting it up? And to embrassed about it?
The best you can do is ask him. If you married him you should be able to be open and tell eachother honestly. All feelings aside, if you tell him you rather be hurt and know the truth then live like this for the rest of your life.
2007-03-22 23:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by Zenthae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the key to everything in a marriage.
You need to ask him why.
He is the only one who can answer this ?, because he is the only one who knows why.
Perhaps it is a medical problem or medication he is taking, this tends to damper arousal.
2007-03-22 23:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by goddessatanea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you talk with him? The best way to solve this problem is to discuss with each other. If need then discuss with doctor. If even the problem persist then use your wit to solve problem.
2007-03-23 00:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by dibesic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honest sound like he done jump the fence over in to another pasture,,,16 month , a long time,, an if he not doing the dance with you he danceing with some one else
2007-03-23 00:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u r the only one who can answer this question cause u r the person who live with this person & know him well so make a quick revision obout your life with him than u will know the right answer (good luck and b honest with urself)
2007-03-22 23:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by catroza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its either he has a problem like premature ejaculation, or he's impotent, or could he be suffering with depression, or sorry to say he's being unfaithful. You need to tell him you both need to get help either counseling or at doctors. good luck
2007-03-22 23:34:05 · answer #8 · answered by RACHEL B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should concern doctor 4 tht may b he is involved somewhere or there is some sex prob in him
2007-03-22 23:41:37 · answer #9 · answered by raachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the cyber world!It does all the teachings but the best thing is trying to talk to him and maybe getting him a best whipped dish by you, AS IT ALWAYS PROVES THERE IS NOTHING IMPORTANT THAN SATISFYING HUNGER!OTHERS WILL FALL INTO PLACE GRADUALLY.
2007-03-22 23:31:49 · answer #10 · answered by cool_honeybabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋