Everytime I'm having sex with my gf, it takes her about 4-5 orgasms before I can have mine, she usually asks me if i'm cheating on her because i can go for a long time, I know it doesnt make sense but has anyone thought that before?
2007-03-22 23:19:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
now thats wierd! maybe shes the one faking to make you feel bad...
2007-03-22 23:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by BlackMagik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your gilr has insecurities that the two of you need to talk about and sort out. Just cuz you can go long doesnt mean your cheating on her!
Also the only reason girls like their men to allow them to come first is because of experience with guys who orgasm before the girl and then falls alseep leaving the girl feeling unsatisfied. But you're clearly not that guy so good on ya!
2007-03-23 08:33:09 · answer #2 · answered by cindz_jess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you are not cheating and that is not caused by you cheating. If you have not yet reached orgasm you haven't and thinking that she feels as though you are cheating will make you loose concerntration and you wont enjoy sex. Good luck!!
2007-03-23 06:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by MEMSA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE! cuz shes got ya by the balls LOL... personally if this was me Id just JO in front of her and say Opps... i got mine.. now you get yers (Im such a b*tch.. i learned from the best my X wife LOL) and yes really i would do that.. hell i've done it.. fact Is no chick is as good as i am.. LOL
Or just shut up and take the P whip bro.. (that can be fun too.. but they have to use a real whip hehehe)
2007-03-23 06:27:35 · answer #4 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah she is defanitly faking, and she is very insacure i know if my man let me orgasum 3 or 4 times before he did, i would be in heaven. should of never let that one go. anyhow, that is very rare for a guy to think of the girl. and for her thinking u are cheating maybe she is the one. usually in my experance the accuser is the one doing the deed.
2007-03-23 06:29:32 · answer #5 · answered by Gina B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different. She may be more sensitive than you are. Tou did not mention whether there is an age difference. Generally, as men get older it takes longer for them. However, there are exceptions to that rule.
2007-03-23 06:29:03 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth is that the purpose of life is realisation of God not sexual pleasure
2007-03-23 07:09:28 · answer #7 · answered by Questions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that your holding out because you want her to be able enjoy it more. Then she 'might' reconsider...
2007-03-23 06:49:29 · answer #8 · answered by 96~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-23 06:43:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋