a boy who is leaving out side of india.he loves me a lot .he said he cant live without me .I also love him but as a friend i told him already .But he said he will die if i said that i love him as a friend .He want me as a lover.I love another guy last 10 years.what should i do .i don't want ditch my would be and i also don't want loose my friend?i m facing two ways in which i choose one what should do?
2007-03-22 22:21:00 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hi.. you need to explain to him that you are already in a relationship and you really wish to keep him as a friend, tell him that friendships last forever.. and that you will always be there for him
also tell him that he's the one who's convincing him self with this love but it's not real, he just likes you are cares for you as a friend and when he meets the right one, he'll know that you were right in telling him this
Good luck
2007-03-22 23:23:43 · answer #1 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's manipulative, he just trying to see how far ul go.
Let him go. U dont need him in ur life. He wont die.
There are plenty fish in the sea.. He will notice and then he will go to another girl and tell that girl the same thing.
Go for the guy that u like for the past 10 years. If this guy that you liked for the past 10 years likes you aswel.
Then i think, go for the guy that you have liked for the past ten years.
2007-03-22 22:54:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear. Boundaries are now over. Work hard , be in position to go to the same country where he is going. Follow him. Tell him to wait. In case , he does not, you should also forget him.Because this way he is exposed.
As regards maintaining two relations. I know a friend who married brother-in-law of the person, who actually made her to go for illegal abortion at the age of 19 years. She manages both the relations very nicely. Illegal with the son-in-law of the home where she is daughter -in-law. Above all, her mother-in-law is in know of it and is happy that her daughter -in-law keeps her son-in-law in a good mood.
Sandeepa
2007-03-22 23:13:37 · answer #3 · answered by sandeep k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not love u but loves himself so the sooner u get rid of him, the better. If he truly loved u then he would he happy in ur happiness. But he is concerned with his own happiness and does not appreciate ur 10 yr long association with another person. He has still to learn the meaning of Love.
2007-03-22 22:59:05 · answer #4 · answered by sudershan Guddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just simple as that you want to have your share of cake and carry too.
Be bold enough to tell your NR friend that he is just an friend and he has to check before giving a cry call of death.
Even we are your friends as we are replying you, it never means that we can propose any one with out knowing the full details of other partner and their life.
I think that you were not able to say no with full confident to that guy timely or he is just trying to plydown your sentiments.
Be strong and tell him the truth
Bye
2007-03-22 23:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you met this guy who is living outside India?? If not, watch out!! He could be a pervert.
A bird in the hand is worth two in a bush..
If you know and love your guy for the past 10 years, he might me the right one for you.
2007-03-22 22:26:20 · answer #6 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Choose the person that you love. Tell your friend that he will have to settle for friendship, or you will not be able to communicate with him any longer. That would be considered cheating on the guy that you are presently seeing. If he really cares for you, he will respect you for your decision.
2007-03-22 22:25:57 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope it all depends on u means to whom dou love?u hav to decide first this thing. then u should thing of that crazy guy who says he is going to die like this never happens in real.i had also said the same thing for more than 5-6 but i hadnt so to choose ur love close ur eyes for few minutes one who see first is right for u
2007-03-22 22:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by suyog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is something you need to think about and i think you already know the answer. dont let him suck you into something you dont want just because he said he would die if you dont love him. you clearly love this other boy which you have known for 10 years! isnt it obvious enough?
2007-03-22 22:25:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why you girls always have problems regarding boys. he is a fool and not going to die. if he breaks friendship with you then it is clear he did not want to remain with you, he just wants to have you. you should not care about such persons life. they are pieces of baubles in this world. let him go
2007-03-22 23:17:28 · answer #10 · answered by Kanishk Rawat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋