Have those of you out there who are/were married (depending of the outcome) ever strayed from your loved one??? If so what was the outcome and was it worth it....??? Were there any regrets??? Was it as good as you thought it would be??? Would you do it again???
2007-03-22 22:14:33 · 8 answers · asked by bammbamm 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I did stray from my marriage---we stayed togehter---the hurt and pain I caused my man was not worth the few moments of pleasure. I regret hurting my man; but, I mostly hate hurting my family. When a person strays and get caught there is trust issue after---it is hard to regain that trust. Even though the outside relaitonship was ok---I do not like the trouble it caused.
I do not see myself doing it again--
2007-03-28 09:41:08 · answer #1 · answered by destine4_69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously you are thinking about doing the BIG dirty on your partner...THINK AGAIN it will (1) End in ruin..(2) So totally ruin your relationship with your current so called loved one..(3)Hopefully ruin your own life MORE than your poor so called loved one..4)Is never worth it because of the guilt that you will feel. You will know that you are a worthless,untrustworthy,no good,lying cheat...not a great way to have to think about yourself, "is it:?? Whilst you are in the throes of doing it you wont think about it..but once the preverbial hits the fan, you most surely will be thinking these things...trust me my husbnd has done it twice to me ovr 28 years and it is the most gut wrenching,soull destroying thing that a so called loved one couild do to a person,,,and if you do proceed with this action..then I wish you all the luck because you are going to feel pretty wothless afterwards...hope it is worth it for a lifetime of guilt and suffering for all 3 of you(although if the other person knows that you are in ar elationship, and is pursing this anyway, then they deserve everyting they do or dont get) as you do too.
2007-03-28 10:16:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a heartwrenching experience. Some things seemed great, but the heartache you cause will stain your soul. If you are considering it, I'd talk to your wife about how you feel. If you don't have that ability, you will be talking to her about it after the fact, and its worse. She'll probably hate you and society will think less of you. If you're ready for that, then move on. You're definitely going to want to explore yourself and the reasons why you are contemplating this, before acting out. Your marriage might be perfect and it's just that you have issues you need to work out. Don't rush into anything...
2007-03-27 20:06:16 · answer #3 · answered by stormc2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been married a little over two years and i've never strayed nor have i ever thought to stray if you are really in love and have found you're soul mate you should have no desire to go else where
2007-03-27 16:19:09 · answer #4 · answered by playfulmollymaysweetheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never strayed, never intend to.
I love my man.
2007-03-23 06:48:32 · answer #5 · answered by galpal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, never strayed.. Don't intend too either..
2007-03-28 00:00:18 · answer #6 · answered by That Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never have never will, love my husband more than any fling in the world.
2007-03-28 16:08:17 · answer #7 · answered by Blessed Rain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but it was when We were going to get divorced!
2007-03-23 05:17:47 · answer #8 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋