Most of the guys you see in the gym are nice, toned, and really hot. Sometimes I feel wired working out right by them so i stay away and dont talk to them. I can talk to any girl thats not a problem, its just the guys. Im not Fat, but i am chubby as i think. I know which guys are gay and just want to go up to them and see if we could chill but i donno.
So what do you think?
2007-03-22 21:37:27 · 15 answers · asked by Supercc1 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Ok....but I also go to the gym, and i run daily, and i eat 5 small meals a day, so i try to keep fit, but my weight wont go down. But guys that have a bunch of muscles are just all about themselves as so they apear to be like. One of my Bestfriend is now just a friend. He say that now that he has a cute body and all the girls love him, that he can chill to much with me cuz it will ruin his image. So that makes me feel kinda bad.....
2007-03-22 22:00:11 · update #1
All gay dudes have their own preferences. I'm sure you've heard of the saying "opposites attract". If you're interested in a guy, introduce yourself. You may be pleasantly surprised that not all "gym rats" are, shall we say, "shallow".
2007-03-22 21:43:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 12⤊ 0⤋
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Most of the guys you see in the gym are nice, toned, and really hot. Sometimes I feel wired working out right by them so i stay away and dont talk to them. I can talk to any girl thats not a problem, its just the guys. Im not Fat, but i am chubby as i think. I know which guys are gay and just want...
2015-08-16 09:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being female in the first place, and not being gay in the second place, I can offer only my observation of my best friend who is a Lesbian.
She found a lover who definitely did not fit the ideal beauty image. She was fat and had 'issues'.
Nevertheless, my friend and her chosen lover were together for 5 years. Eventually, the relationship split for personal issues, but I don't think the 'fat' was part of it.
Also, I have had a 'few' lovers in my life, and some were fat, some were thin. It doesn't matter that much what the body is like - it matters much more how two people can get together and share space with joy.
Consider that starting a relationship is a little like playing the lottery - but with better odds!
Some people will like you, some will not. What matters is that you like yourself through thick and thin!
Put your best mind forward - think of yourself as the beautiful person you are, not just the body you live in. Then go out and see who will recognize you the same way and who won't.
The ones who won't see beyond your appearance are most likely so wrapped up in their own body image that they wouldn't make good companions for you anyway.
Let them go and keep looking.
Above all, love yourself always and never agree with someone who, by word or deed, doesn't.
2007-03-22 21:49:29 · answer #4 · answered by flywho 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can't honestly say I'm attracted to fat OR thin guys. However the last guy I dated for a couple of years was approx 250# and not buff... and the guy I have been with for 6 years is 140# and very thin. I'm somewhere in between. They guys I'm physically attracted to range in all shapes, ages, colors, and sizes.
2016-03-19 01:14:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when u put fat gay guy and cute muscle guy, it make it sound so awful. i'm sure some do like cute chubby guy. i know i do.
2007-03-22 22:04:54 · answer #6 · answered by confused and loving it 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Muscly guys feel that they have worked HARD to maintain their physique and, out of principle, will most likely reject average or chubby looking guys out of a belief that if they respect their bodies enough to keep themselves in shape, then their lovers should make the effort to reach their *standard*.
It's not just about LOOKING GOOD but DISCIPLINE, too.
Muscly guys, on the whole, don't respect guys who do not have the *discipline* to work out like they do.
2007-03-22 21:51:22 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
This is a matter of ones own opinion, you cant generalize...some of them may like chubby guys,others dont...but i think that chosing partners,bfs,lovers etc...simply on what they look like, is just kinda shallow...
So just feel good bout yourself and step up to them and talk to them, just be yourself...and your personality will definetly shadown those extra pounds you have on..
Take Care
2007-03-22 21:45:49 · answer #8 · answered by BlueBoy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never know, world's made up of al kinds.
But remember that cute often equals twinkie.
2007-03-22 21:41:14 · answer #9 · answered by guy o 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. I think there's someone for everyone out there.
2007-03-22 22:34:30 · answer #10 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋