with good pay but I want to go and live back in Newcastle and become an airhostess. Life here is quite crap, I don't get on with my boyfriend anymore, I can't stand the people and I want to get out. The problem is my mam lives here and I don't want to leave her alone and this job offer is really intresting. HELP ME DECIDE PLEASE!!!!
2007-03-22 20:27:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
Do it. Become an air hostess. You will travel and have a much more exciting life. And if your boyfriend doesnt support your choice, there are PLENTY more fish in the sea!
2007-03-22 20:31:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want the job as an air hostess then you must go for it. I am sure your Mam will support your decision, and would hate to think that you were staying in a country you don't like just for her.
As an air hostess you will get very cheap travel, and Menorca isn't far away. If your Mam needs you, you could be there very quickly. Speak to your Mam about this. You never know, she might be fed up with life in Menorca too?
If you don't go for it you might start to resent your Mam, and this could affect your relationship with her.
Good luck with the new job!!
(I'd love to know what you decide to do.....please put your decision in this question if you decide soon.
2007-03-23 03:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by Copper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Just do what your heart desires, if you are not happy with your life then move on. Your mum will always be there for you and you can always pay her a visit, would your mum not go back with you? I am sure she would not want to hold you back. She must have friends in Menorca just make sure she will not be completely alone. You get one chance of life, don't look back later in life and think of what could have been. Do it now Good Luck in whatever you decide
2007-03-23 03:46:05 · answer #3 · answered by kevina p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the job already offered, it will give you time to get your life sorted out. you will also be able to adjust to the idea that your mum will probably be fine if you do decide to return to Newcastle. Breaking up with your boyfriend is obviously a major thing, you need to give yourself time so that you can make a decision that is right for you.
2007-03-23 03:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by funnelweb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the job. Then you will be able to save up, and increase your options in the future.
By gaining work experience, you may have a better chance to get an airhostess job in Britain.
It's difficult to know whether to leave your Mum, you must talk to her about it. See how she feels.
2007-03-23 03:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all have you spoken to your mum about this?
you should do this first as it sounds like it will affect your mum
and you feel responsable to her. does she like her life there,has she made friends would she be willing to leave with you?does your mam live with you there? have you got accomadation sorted back in the uk?
in my own personal experiance you should never go back to a life you once had its never the same again but it sounds like you and your boyfriend could have come to the end and you sound fine about that. it could be that you are wanting to move on from your bf dont burn your bridges too soon talk to your mam
2007-03-23 03:41:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
loving your mum and having a job that takes you away from her,I've aways tried to keep my contacts with family members moving on,your mother must love you to and will miss your company ,at the end of the day it's your life and you must decide how to please your self to suit you the best,perhaps seeing you mother when in that port,remember the important dates phoning is always good
2007-03-23 04:04:00 · answer #7 · answered by angie n 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to, just go for it. Why don't you sit down and talk to your mum, you'll probably find she'll be right behind you.
2007-03-23 03:37:19 · answer #8 · answered by siany warny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋