2007-03-22 20:20:31 · 4 answers · asked by j_mang 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In my opinion....the worst thing that happened to us was the death of our oldest child...some parents end up in divorce court but we stuck it out crying together, clinging together...just being there for one another when we thought we were going to fall completely apart.
To me that was the worst thing.
We married when we were in our teens and now we are of retirement age so something clicked....something worked.....we just have always had the determination to MAKE IT WORK...no matter what has come our way....we are sorry for anything we have done wrong....and try to pick up the pieces and make the best of bad situations....if we take our marriage vows seriously then we try again to live up to the words we spoke many years ago....we grow up as we age and as we live together day after day year after year....we learn to accept one another no matter what our differences are. We all have our ways and no matter what, we can't change the other person....we will only be unhappy if we keep trying.....so right now as I speak I'm 2 years short of being married for 50 years and I hope I make it....each day is a new beginning we never know what might happen to either one of us....so I try and do the little things that matter and he does the same for me....like picking up the dishes after I've cooked.....and covering me up with a quilt if I go to sleep in the chair....it's not what you buy someone the money you spend...it's the little soft things you say and do that keep your relationship together and in the best of health....There is no recipe....for a healthy marriage....but it does take commitment for life.. not for 10 years....it's for as long as you live....some people might not take their vows seriously....if that is the case then that cuts short the chances that the couple will remain together....you know if a house is not built on a firm foundation then it won't stand the winds and strong storms...our life is the same....we have to have a good base for our marriage to keep it strong and healthy....best wishes to you in your relationship...
Mama Jazzy Geri
2007-03-22 20:38:18 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Jazzy Geri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The blogbaba is incredibly happy, after 23 years of marriage I still can't figure out what she sees in me. The sex is awesome and I wouldn't trade her for two twenty year olds, even though the option is open to the blogbaba. At least I know how good I got it. Sorry, but some of us are happy and the blogbaba is one of the happy endings.
2007-03-23 03:27:34 · answer #2 · answered by blogbaba 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK... i've been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs already , we were going through alot before.. and i ended up cheating on him... we have a son and a daughter and my daughter isnt hes.. and he knew it from the start.. .. he broke up with me while being pregnant and he came back.. and accepts my daughter as it was hes own.. hes truly a good man.. everything is going good.. i mean BETTER.. and has made us a really understanding couple.. we love eachother.. i believe LOVE is the highest level of understanding iam a human being im not proud of cheating on my boyfriend but i rather be judge than to feel guilty of killing an innocent child meaning as having an abortion.. i love my boyfriend and he loves me.. and were stronger than ever.....
2007-03-23 03:38:21 · answer #3 · answered by Dee M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husbands PMS Post Marine Syndrome...Its maddening and he makes me mad, I'm not one of his subordinates...I do not take orders and i can think for myself.
Happy now...hmmm today's my birthday, so things went good
Made it stronger...I'll let you know tomorrow
2007-03-23 03:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋