Especially with children? Absolute looser dont you say? My boyfriend had sexual intimacy before me with some dirty ***** at a bar who he claims is lawyer ahah yea right. What sucessful laywer hangs out at bars and screws my looser boyfriend.
2007-03-22 20:15:42 · 17 answers · asked by eurasia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Bar fly.....
2007-03-22 20:39:24 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
"Do you think 42 year old women who hangs out at bars are loosers? "
No.
"Especially with children?"
I doubt the bar manager or owner let the children hang out. So if they were not subjected to the environment what does that have to do with it. Parents are allowed to have a social life once in awhile.
"Absolute looser dont you say?"
No.
"My boyfriend had sexual intimacy before me with some dirty ***** at a bar who he claims is lawyer ahah yea right. What sucessful laywer hangs out at bars and screws my looser boyfriend."
Do you know this woman personally? If not then your comments are based on jealousy and insecurity.
Alot of people frequent bars. It doesn't make them bad people. There are those that go there to hook up with other people but not everyone does that. Age has nothing to do with anything in this case.
Instead of being concerned about this woman why not get an education and a career of your own. If your boyfriend is not having any contact with her, what exactly is the problem?
Are you jealous that she was with your boyfriend before you ?
or
That she may be a successful lawyer that slept with your boyfriend ?
If you think your boyfriend is a loser, then why are you with him or even care what he did before you?
2007-03-23 05:35:31 · answer #2 · answered by BhitchyPrincess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people go to bars for various reasons. Some go to unwind with friends. Some are there to pick up men/women. Just because a woman is at a bar doesn't make her a dirty *****. I actually know quiet a few people who are very successful and like to go have a drink with friends just to relax.
Maybe she was there with friends and her and your boyfriend had an attraction to each other. If it happened before you, you really have nothing to gripe about. I would not let jealousy interfere in your relationship over an incident that happened before you became involved. Especially if he has no contact with her now.
Where as the children are concerned parents need to have some "me time". There is nothing wrong with it.
Just out of curiosity, have you ever been to a bar ?
2007-03-23 04:42:31 · answer #3 · answered by AngelWings 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so quick to dismiss her as being a lawyer - I know a few that are so busy with their careers, all they have time for sex wise is a quick 'pick up' at the bar - it's sex with no strings attached! But you are right about your boyfriend - what looser would hang out at a bar when he has a girlfriend??
Time to find someone new!
Good Luck!
Aloha!
2007-03-23 03:23:54 · answer #4 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to admit, 42 is a bit long in the tooth to be regularly hanging out in bars. I'm not sure where she should hang out but I don't think bars on a regular basis is the place. It does seem a bit pathetic.
2007-03-23 05:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Same thing happend to me. My S.lutty ex girlfriend met some 40 year old guy in a bar and went to bed with him, and has been seeing him ever since, they are "just having fun" LOL!!!! as far as i'm concerned they are both loosers haha. whatever, i bet i was better in bed LOL!
2007-03-26 06:57:03 · answer #6 · answered by Deformation Age 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are u chinese or smth? it is totally normal to hang out in bars for any age people (well, except for underaged). a bar is a place for interaction with REAL people. and i believe this woman your bf met was a lawer - she had money to hang out in a bar, which u obviously don't have. i am married and have children, but when i meet with friends we meet at bars before going to night club. i don't think how there is anything wrong with that. we all are married
2007-03-23 03:21:23 · answer #7 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm, I hate to break it to you, but many lawyers are pretty heavy drinker. why do you think it's called the BAR exam? I am not saying his story is true, but it might be.
if i met a 42 year old woman at a bar i would think she is in a bar like everyone else in the bar. not sure what you mean.
2007-03-23 03:24:14 · answer #8 · answered by fromorto12 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes ,and no!
at 42 where would you go?
2007-03-23 03:19:21 · answer #9 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id say that she needs to get her priorities together.. 42 will soon be 52 etc... then what stability will you have
2007-03-23 03:56:15 · answer #10 · answered by Steve M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, he's the loser.Find a new man.42 is still pretty young...
2007-03-23 03:25:01 · answer #11 · answered by Hip Hop Anotomous 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋