ex's memories?

Question

I suppose some of you would think i'm crazy or something. but, lately, i've been thinking about my ex bf..the memories we shared together. it's been a year and 3 months since we broke up. we were together for 7 months which wasnt long..but things has changed. he broke up with me because the way he felt about me werent the way it used to be, so he decided that we remain good friends...and i accept that even though it wasnt what i wanted. i had no choice but to accept his decision...i didnt want to lose him. I was heartbroken for a long time and i wish things had work out between us. I dont hear from him anymore nor we talk on the phone, but we talk couple times the past year, couple months after the breakup. i know he's totally over me now because i havent hear from him in so long, almost a year. I thought about sending him an email, ask how he's doing, but it would be awkward after everything that has happened in the past. maybe i shouldnt because theres really no point...but move on

Answer 1

Our best evidence of what people truly feel and believe comes less from their words than from their deeds.

It's evident from your viewpoint that you love him so much. Your loyalty made me smile. If people like you are there, then they are difficult to find because I read here someone dumped the other for silly reasons and all this. Loyalty means nothing unless it has at its heart the absolute principle of self-sacrifice.

You are a wonderful person, I wish that your guy will understand the significance and depth of you and your feelings for him. Good Wishes

Answer 2

this is very normal. I do the same thing. if I were you I would just remember the good times you had with that person but don't email him or get things going again cuz it will hurt you worse. I'm even married now to a wonderful man, but in the back of my mind I still can't help think of my ex from three years ago! we would talk here and there too after our breakup but all it did was make me think of him even more. I hope you can find someone else and be able to completely move on. good luck

Answer 3

Most males play the "lets be friends" card to make the fall seem less hard but in actuality they just buying themselves more time. When they find something better in their lives they leave you behind and thats it, no note no warning just a cold feeling inside. Dont allow this to break you. You have no choice but to move on because even if you email him adn have contact with him , can you imagine him with a g/f and you being forced to befriend her and be "happy" for them? Dont put yourself through this, work past it and just look forward. He was in your life for a season and yes you had good times but now its over. You can start fresh... open your arms and embrace the chance of new love.

Answer 4

THERE IS NO POINT IN SENDING HIM AN EMAIL! He knows how to contact you. If he hasnt it's cuz he's moved on. You should do the same. From the sound of it, you know exactly what you need to do. Trust you gut, it wont steer you wrong. Assuming, you do realize it's pointless, all you'll end up doing is getting your feelings hurt in the process, especially is he doesnt respond. Let it go, Sweetheart.

Answer 5

Is it your first love?..... sometime it is difficult to forget.. but don't worry the time will heal. Cheers....