His mom lives in his house that he ownes and I cant stand her.He says he cant kick her out because shes his mom but I am sick of her being nosy,listening to our conversations, and constantly calling out his name every minute.She treats him like he is still her little boy.I asked him to get another place so we can move out but he says he wants to stay here. She interuppts people when they are talking.When my boyfriend is in the shower she continues to talk to him from the kitchen as if she can hear him.
2007-03-22 20:11:04 · 10 answers · asked by eurasia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
either you learn to like her or move out. He's is not going to get rid of his mother. If you keep making a big deal about it, he will get rid of you.
2007-03-22 20:21:34 · answer #1 · answered by lilly j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its kind of clumsy to live in the same house with your boyfriend and his mother. Seeing that you are not his wife, you have no superior claim over his relationship with him mother. She probably does not see you in his future either, being just his girlfriend. You need to define your relatiosnhip with your bf. If it remains in current state, then you may not live with him. On the other if you do get married--be sure that your mother in law will respect you more; respect your privacy in the house and be generally more respectful to you--even if she still lives with you. At this moment, you are the trespasser.
2007-03-23 03:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by Elder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up.
You want your bf to kick his mom out of a house he owns and shares with her. WTF? How would you feel if he was that shallow... just imagine what would happen when he finds a new chick and just boots your *** out the door.
To his mom, he is her little boy. He is taking care of her. If you don't want to see his mom, make sure he spend the nights at your house.
Grow up.
2007-03-23 03:16:08 · answer #3 · answered by Adorabilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The umbilical cord is still attached.
Will always be.
Unless you can deal with that ( and some can when there's a pot of gold at the end), it's your decision.
Life is compromises.
2007-03-23 03:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure he owns the house? Have you seen a title in his name? Could it be his mothers house and he and you are living with her? He is obviously very close to his mother and a mommas boy and you will never change that.
He isn't going to change anything and she isn't going to change...if you really can't stand her...then looks like you will have to be the one to leave....without him.
2007-03-23 03:35:12 · answer #5 · answered by Intelfem7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in all the mother must love her son to bits to do something like that or she doesn't approve of you being with her Son! Why don't you get His Mother in one room and ask her if she approves of you and her son together!
2007-03-23 03:21:22 · answer #6 · answered by Shy Kaapie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A mommas boy not much you can do. It's a really touchy situation. So be careful on your behavior or he might kick you out.
2007-03-23 03:33:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ewwwwwww.......touchy subject. i dunno.....i guess if you really love him you'll learn to accept all of him even with his nosy mother. have you ever seen "EVEryone loves RAymond"? crazy Marie. i guess just try and get on her good side or find her a man and maybe she'll leave yours alone?
2007-03-23 03:16:44 · answer #8 · answered by Laura B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run, your in over your head, and he's way to close to his mom for comfort.
2007-03-23 03:18:08 · answer #9 · answered by blogbaba 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move out or put up with her
2007-03-23 08:41:32 · answer #10 · answered by petal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋