aint is supposed to be that your other partner is the most important in your life and yet why u choose to quarrel with him/her.... and yet friends u wont... cos friends dont seriously care about u ? they dont restrict yr movements/ actions ?
they love for whom you are ?... somehw isit bcos of this tt y in this world there are increasing rate of homosexual etc...
2007-03-22 19:49:46 · 7 answers · asked by Simon T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Friends break up to from serious fights...I don't think either have anything to do with homosexuality...
2007-03-22 20:22:50 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is an excellent question. I believe couples expect their partners to be mind readers. Friends know their buddies aren't mind readers.
The secret to a successful relationship is first, a willingness to accept yourself. If you can't accept yourself how can you expect others to accept you. So learn to love and accept yourself without judgment. Then, when you get involved with a relationship, either marriage or friendship, you will be able to accept your partner...without judgment. Sometimes we feel that just because some magic words were said the relationship has different rules. That's not true. If you can get along with your friends, you should pick as a live-in partner someone who has the same qualities, someone with whom you can be a friend as well as a lover. Look how much richer a loving friendship can be.
2007-03-22 19:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most couples aren't even friends. If they were, they would treat each other better, and if they got into a fight, they could make up like friends do. The problem is that young couples get together for physical attraction only, and don't really even get to know each other or really care about each other, then when the opportunity comes to cheat, its a no-brainer, then its always a nasty break-up. You should become friends first, and ladies, don't fall into that trap that most girls do...you know..."we can't date because we are too good friends" crap. Truth is - that's MARRIAGE MATERIAL!
2007-03-22 19:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When we are talking couples we are talking about a very close relationship which in most cases people take as ownership or proprietorship. They are very jealous of their partner and resent anything which might be construed as being unfaithful. They are also trying to adjust to living together with a common set of goals and mores. With a friend you generally don't have this close a relationship.
2007-03-22 19:58:43 · answer #4 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex bf admitted nonchalantly that he tends to give more concern to friends than to his gfs...like u, i think ur bf/gf should be first and foremost. i think relationships w/ friends are diff fr with gf/bf's. couples breakup with fights b/c *feelings* get hurt. Friends dont really breakup wen they fight b/c youre right-it doesnt seem like friends keep tabs on and/or restrict you from being who you are-friends accept u despite ur quirks and flaws...some bf/gf's are intolerant-so they get into fights and someone eventually has enough of it and then you breakup.
2007-03-22 19:56:03 · answer #5 · answered by Noodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i def get in more fights with my friends then gf
2007-03-22 20:01:59 · answer #6 · answered by TG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FRIENDS get into fights too.
2007-03-22 19:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋