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ok so im 16 and me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 year and 7 months and i love him me and him have sex but lately i stop and think if i really want to be with him wat should i do? im really confused

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what im trying to ask is what should i do cause im not sure about my feelings toward him but at the same time all i want to do is be with him!

2007-03-22 19:30:24 · 6 answers · asked by Erika 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

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be honest with yourself and decide what he may be doing to make you question your relationship.for example has he changed or have you changed?if you find that its an issue you can easily sort out by talking to him about it then u dont have to break up with him but if u genuinely dont like him anymore then theres no need to stay in a relationship u arent happy in!

2007-03-22 22:14:08 · answer #1 · answered by brandi p 1 · 0 0

16 is so young to have sex. There are so many emotional attachments that come with having sex with someone. You have been together for a long time, but you are still young and it sounds like you are feeling tied down and you aren't ready for it.
Try to ask yourself, why are you with him, what do you like about him? What do you bring to the relationship, other than sex of course. Maybe you want to date him but would like to have more time to yourself to devote to school and friends.

But trust me, you will do so much personal changing and growth between the ages of 16 and 21 and you may not at all be the person you are now when you get to 21 or 22.
Having sex is more than a physical act, it is supposed to reinforce the bond between a married couple. You are not married, you have a lot of maturing to do and having fun being a teen.
Hopefully these will give you some things to think about. Are you able to talk with your mom or a friend's mom? Try to seek out someone to help you work things out and help you with your thoughts and problems.
I wish you the best of luck!

2007-03-23 02:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by dog's best friend 4 · 0 0

you should wait. You do not want to do anything that makes you wonder "should I" If you do not know your real feelings this is another reason. But the main one is that you are only 16. I know you think you are all grown up but you are not. At 16 it is not like this is the guy you are going to be with for the rest of your life. It would be best if you were to wait another couple of years at least so you have a bit more life experience to decide if this is the guy who you want to be your first

2007-03-23 02:39:56 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0 0

I am 18 and know what your going through. This is really tough. Once, I was POSITIVE I didnt want to be with my boyfriend anymore, so I broke up with him. Boy it didnt take me long to realize I made a mistake. And he wouldnt take me back. So I guess what im saying, is really really really make sure its what you want. Because he just may not go back to you. What makes you think you dont want to be with him? you can email me if you like. or IM me im on right now.
mandiliz06 is my screen name

2007-03-23 02:36:27 · answer #4 · answered by mandiliz06 4 · 0 0

Live and learn. Now you know - mother knows best. No more sex, and break it off with him. It was a mistake. You're not going to be together forever, except you might be apologizing forever unless you sleep around some more.

2007-03-23 02:43:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

really confused about the question!

2007-03-23 02:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by holla 2 · 0 0

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