2007-03-22 18:53:18 · 16 answers · asked by Titam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're still in love with him, right? Or at least still needing to be hooked in to him! Perhaps you need to remind yourself about why you left him in the first place. Chances are it was because he couldn't take care of him emotional baggage effectively and you got tired of his childish behaviors. So, let go and let him grow up! We all get left at some point in our lives and we have to move on. To continue to try and fix this for him robs him of the ability to develop the skills he needs to move forward. If you really care about this guy, let him alone and get on with your life while letting him get on with his. Believe it or not, he'll probably be just fine!
2007-03-22 18:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by JennyP 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be a friend if you can, and dont be mean. I missed my ex very much and I wanted to remain friends, but he was so cold to me and very hurtful. If you can, understand he his hurt, but you can be friends with him and acknowledge him as a person. Just because he is your ex, does not mean he is a horrible human being, unless he did something uncalled for.
Its funny, most ex's are treated like garbage from thier ex bf or gf and they were one of the closest persons you will ever have known. Yet, we treat strangers with more respect. ITs sad and not right.
2007-03-23 02:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a clean break, leave the poor guy alone, soothing him will give him the wrong idea. Let him get over you by not having any contact with him.
2007-03-23 01:57:31 · answer #3 · answered by Vegas 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone... he'll get over it quicker ya evil B**ch.. either that or introduce him to yer younger sister.. either will work..
Sheesh.. done is done .. dont prolong it X is X.. GO AWAY! and STAY AWAY...
and people wonder why Xs wind up on court TV for shooting someone sheesh...
In the words of Chris Rock.. I dont condone it.. BUT I understand it...
(Oh an P.S. stay the hell away from me OK?.. you scare me. and Satan dosent scare me i was married to his sister once..)
2007-03-23 02:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y are u trying to soothe him, it wl only worsen his problem
U forget him n try to move ahead with ur life
2007-03-23 04:41:53 · answer #5 · answered by Vns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone...it will pass! It is NOT up to you to make him feel better. Obviously something broke you 2 up. Now go on your merry little way and tell him TO HECK WITH HIM!
2007-03-23 02:00:20 · answer #6 · answered by Nubian Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU don't. He is your ex, he is in the past. YOU move on.
2007-03-23 02:43:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is your EX-HUSBAND. it is not your problem anymore. but if you feel like you need to, maybe you still love him.
2007-03-23 01:55:50 · answer #8 · answered by heather l 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whats going on with him ,and what do you want?
2007-03-23 02:30:38 · answer #9 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your ex for a reason... move on.
2007-03-23 01:56:59 · answer #10 · answered by Cambrianna S 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋