my friend have been asking from me $12 tat i owe her since our friendship has ended...but my jacket is still with her...i told her tat if she return my jacket then i will return the money...but she told me tat she passed my jacket to someone who she dun knw...and is none of her business...so i didnt return the money,i just could not stand when she keep scolding me tat the money go to my funeral and i am small (humji)... i feeling quite depressed..wad shld i do?
shld i fight against her or let go? if i let go,i feel tat i get bulllied easily and no guts...
i willing to return the money but she just keep smsed me that i am a liar and a stealer
2007-03-22 18:49:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm with you, no jacket then no money.
2007-03-22 18:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by lucy02 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her nicely that you will return the $12, and even though that the friendship has ended, the remarks still hurt. She is just saying something spiteful. People make remarks when they are angry, but that doesn't mean that they mean what they say.
Just return the $12, and even if she doesn't return the jacket. At least you don't owe her anything and could face your conscience.
2007-03-23 02:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by isabsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She lost a friend and $12.
You lost a friend and your jacket.
You both lost something - so you are even.
You are right - she had responsibility to give your jacket only back to you - she didn't so you should be entitled to use the $12 to replace that jacket.
Let it go and take it as a lesson.
Best wishes.
2007-03-23 01:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by Stan W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ig this friend is important to you then you need to foget the $12...as or the jacket, file a police report, it is considered "receipt of stolen property" and in the end you will get your jacket back!
GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-23 02:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In life, we need to learn to let go inorder to be happier. If me, I will pay her the $12 and treat it as a tuition fee to know a person better. Sometime we give to a begger more than $12, so why make yourself depressed over that.
2007-03-23 02:02:29 · answer #5 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find the person with the jacket............give them 12 bucks for the jacket!
2007-03-23 01:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by cooter_1us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you gave her money to someone you don't know.
You are absolutely right, when she returns your property, you return hers. In the meantime, ignore her temper tantrums. She is acting like a spoilt brat.
2007-03-23 02:01:39 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you curious or desperate ? sweetie ... "No te ahogues en un vaso de agua" means don't worry about little things... send her a check and move forward. If you don't want any relationship with her cut any possibility to be in contact with her. Your tranquility is priceless.
2007-03-23 02:01:20 · answer #8 · answered by Interior Designer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget this type of friend as she tries to bully u indeed.
2007-03-23 02:26:05 · answer #9 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋