ok so im 16 and me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 year and 7 months and i love him me and him have sex but lately i stop and think if i really want to be with him wat should i do? im really confused
2007-03-22 18:47:52 · 9 answers · asked by Erika 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
what im trying to ask is what should i do cause im not sure about my feelings toward him but at the same time all i want to do is be with him!
2007-03-22 18:59:50 · update #1
if you are unsure if you want to be with him then take a step back from your situation and look around. Are you happy with him? Can you see yourself with him in the future? Does he treat you right? Do you treat him right? Do you fit comfortably or do you clash? This my dear is only a question you can ask yourself. Sorry I couldn't be more help.
2007-03-22 18:55:23 · answer #1 · answered by missnmyhuny 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is going to sound soooo boring.
The chances are that you won't spend the rest of your life with this geezer, so instead of doing all of this soul searching as too whether he is the 'right one' - get yourself out with your friends & have a laugh, spend some quality time with your family, study hard and reap the rewards.
This is coming from somebody who is 27, has been married for 6 months & has absolutely no regrets about what she has done with her life.
I kissed a hell of alot of frogs before I met my Mr Right. On the other hand my sister was settled down at 16, married at 18 & divorced at 23.
You're a long time dead honey, so get out there and live your life! x
2007-03-23 05:10:49 · answer #2 · answered by fiesty fi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get pregnant at 16 it will totally mess up your LIFE.
Get smart and knock off the sex or it will happen!
If you have no control over your bodily functions then get yourself on a reliable form of birth control. Condoms only protect when they are used correctly, and very few 16 year olds know how to do that.
Sheesh, it would be wise to wait until you are grown up to act like you are grown up.
2007-03-23 03:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by FAT CAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend that you want to take things a little bit slower or have a break from each other, if he loves you he will understand. Then you might be able to figure out how you feel about him.
2007-03-23 05:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find yourself having to stop and think if you want to be with him, maybe it's better to hold off on sex--until you decide if you still want to be with him. You can love him but what you have to ask yourself is are you IN love with him?? Good luck!!
2007-03-23 02:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Sodas♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're 16 and thinking if you even want to be with him - stop being with him.
2007-03-23 01:54:07 · answer #6 · answered by im_buz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i too am confused by your question. it is unclear.
2007-03-23 01:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so don't have sex any more.
2007-03-23 01:51:24 · answer #8 · answered by speedy >>> 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
fix the ques cause i dont kno wat ur asking exactly
2007-03-23 01:54:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋