I need help?!?

Question

well all my friends say that i'm too nice but i don't like being mean to ppl..today a guy at lunch told me his friend wanted to talk to me(which was a joke)he was in the 9th grade..and his friend yells out loud infront of his friends and other ppl.."i don't want to talk to that *****"it really hurted my feelings and i didn't say anything(i didn't even kno him)boyz have alwayz considered me as the ugly girl in school but ihave no problem gettin notice outside of school..now i think that maybe i am too nice..how do u change that??

Answer 1

Its probably just how stupid ppl r when they think someting and there "cool" than no matter knowing u or not they think d same .... Dnt wrry just dnt pay attention to things like that and next time things like that happen asnwer bakc like this time u coulda say " who the hell said i wanted to talk to u"

good luck

Answer 2

You don' t need to change yourself. I've tried to figure this out for years. You can only change how you see the others. No matter if your'e pretty or not and you probably are, people will behave this way because you show you care. Be thankful you have friends and try to have a lighter outlook on life without losing what makes you so special.

Answer 3

I hope u know the story about the snake and the saint, the saint advices the snake not to harm anyone but when people start hitting the snake with stones the saint says i told u not to hurt others but ididnt tell u not to scare them

Be harsh(your speech not u r actions) with people who try to play with u, it is good to be nice but dont give others a chance, otherwise u will be treated like a fool

Being too nice is too bad

Answer 4

Those boys are stupid jocks that can't even get into a community college. Come on don't let yourself get offended by your intellectual underlings. I bet when you drive the speed limit in your car you are driving faster then there own IQ's. They are just sorry sadistic b*sterds that are actually quite ugly (and stupid) themselves that are jealous of your intimidating combination of beauty and intellect. I bet you can laugh in there faces after you see them behind a counter working at McDonalds. Don't let a bunch of low life whale molesting d*cks bring you down.

http://www.americanangst.com/dingfries.html
(Here's a forecast of those idiots future!)

(In fact I bet if you show a photo of yourself you would not look that bad at all)

Answer 5

Keep cool!! The more attention you give to these people they
will try to tease you. Go well with your education and other constructive activities.Try to find out two or three reasonable
people and make friendship with them. They may take up your cause. I tell you no girl is ugly.If you have imperfection regarding
weight try to rectify by proper food habits and exercise.

Answer 6

u r really too nice, coz u can think about it, and see the person is nice from his/her nature not by looking, and u prooves that u r nice, so dont underestimate ur self, and another thing u avoid the friendship to those who r jocking with u and insulting u instead of giving support, and they r not ur good friend, coz good friend is that who is always with u in any situation, so left friends who r not good in nature in other words not nice in nature.

Answer 7

Stay as sweet as you are, and don't lower yourself to their level. I know things like this hurt--but it's only words--let them fly right over your head. You have a reason to be proud of yourself, now--if you change, you will be just like them.

Answer 8

Don't change a thing. Waite till your 10th reunion then tell them they are too late.

Answer 9

Start by using the letter "S" where you have been using the letter "Z".

Read a textbook will ya!

Answer 10

Get new friends.

Get people talking about you positively.