I'm in the same situation as you. I'm 23 and I've know her since kindergarten. It's tough because of who that person is and how they have been such an impact on your life. Whatever happens, happens. Your not going to find a right answer here.
2007-03-22 18:30:09
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answered by Bakka 3
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I've been there, trust me. My former best friend and I had been inseparable since kindergarten, and did everything together from that time on until we were in our mid teens. She made some not so great decisions, and I decided I couldn't surround myself with negativity. People grow, and when you reach a certain age, you really come into your own, and become who you want to be, and it may not be that she doesn't like you anymore, or you don't like her, but maybe its just that you're growing in separate directions, and there is nothing wrong with that. As you grow, you become who you are, and that changes friendships , but creates new ones. If it's a truly solid friendship, you'll never stop finding things to talk about no matter what, and if you do,you'll always be friends, maybe just not as close as you once were.That's part of life, and you'll meet someone you can spend your time with and not grow apart from. Although i do hope you stay close with this friend, people do change, for good, or worse. I really hope it works out.
2007-03-23 01:32:14
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answered by thats_hot_097 2
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I also have a best friend who i've been BFs with since grade two, we do tend to drift, but we could never not be friends since we're so tight, but that's probably not the answer you wanted lol, just make an extra effort, call her up on the phone, chat on IMs, hang out more and stuff, don't worry, if you've been friends for a long time, then i'm sure it'll work itself out ;) Hope I helped <3
2007-03-23 01:29:56
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answered by rukia319 2
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Sometimes inevidable in the process of growing up. It takes effort from both parties to maintain a friendship. Try meeting up & chatting with her more often, but if you don't feel that she recipocrating your efforts, then I guess you'll just need to accept that this is part & parcel of growing up. Gd luck! =D
2007-03-23 01:27:27
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answered by flipper 2
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maintaining a friendship over so long a period of time is a hard thing to manage, and I commend your efforts for trying. It is very common to grow out of these early childhood friendships, but it doesn't have to happen. As others have said, it is very important that you talk to her. Try to find out what common interests you might still share. If she is interested int hings you are not, try them out, you might find something new to occupy your time and revive a flagging friendship at the same time.
2007-03-23 02:05:21
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answered by Ivy Pandora 2
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I know that feeling. You need to sit down with her and let her know how you feel. Sometimes people get busy. If she really is your best friend, she'll understand and do things to improve your relationship. But if she doesn't, well, at least you got some killer memories.
2007-03-23 01:29:20
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answered by shere143 3
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well find out why u r growing apart and then work at the problem.. there is always a solution.. i thought that 2 but then we worked everything out an dit was fine..
2007-03-23 01:39:40
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answered by ~system~of~a~down~luver~ 2
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tell her and you two slove the problem.dun be angry with each other and gently tell u fren the problem.
2007-03-23 01:30:51
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answered by cutiegirlask 3
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