ok why do most boys hate gay/bi boys but love lesbian/bi girls..
you can not say "cuz there hotter" because there sure are some hott gay boys to.. soo why do ppl say that..
like this is a real question soo please dont be mean.
2007-03-22 18:14:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
it's a really strange and sad double standard. society promotes bi women (remember how popular britney and madonna's kiss was?) yet two guys kiss (snickers commercial) and they are considered disgusting freaks.
overall, it think it all has to do with the sad sexism double standards. women's rights have improved, yet overall, being masculine is desirable. men wanting other men is seem as being gay or feminine.. and these traits are apparently not desireable in mainstream society..
2007-03-22 18:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
possibly because it's a defence mechanism: these boys who hate the gay/bi boys are afraid of the social stigma of homosexuality, the way homosexuality is condemned, etc - however, and this is just what I believe in is that these straight boys have their own tendencies however deep into their subconscious minds these are. Instead of having sex with boys, these straight boys get a subliminal homo-erotic pleasure since, for example, watching lesbian/bi girls have sex, is the closest thing they'll get to having actual homosexual intercourse since sublimation is the refocusing of psychic energy away from negative outlets (actual homosexual intercourse mentioned) to more positive outlets (enjoying the thought, and that's why these straight boys like the lesbian/bi girls, of lesbian sex). As long as the one imagining it just stays far from the actual homosexual action, he's happy because he's safe.
But that's just my opinion.
2007-03-22 18:49:25 · answer #2 · answered by ficklefeather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I don't know why but I find the idea of 2 girls way hotter then the idea of 2 guys and I am a straight girl
2007-03-22 18:35:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like bi guys. I think they're hot, but I'm a girl. Also think bi girls are hot. it's a double standard. And it goes back to queen victoria (male homosexuality was outlawed and not female).
2007-03-22 18:52:29 · answer #4 · answered by safe forever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most men are completely unable to grasp the concept of two women who are way more into each other than HIM!
It's called pure EGO!
2007-03-22 18:27:13 · answer #5 · answered by DEATH 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because male homosexuality is taboo.
no one wants to be seen as the "gay guy." for some reason, society thinks that a man's homosexuality makes him less than a man.
2007-03-22 18:25:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋