My boyfriend and I are currently in the united states air force. and i just found out that i am pregnant. i am curently away from family (i live in japan) and i just found out my boyfriend is going to korea for a year then finally getting out.(his time is almost up) i am scared because i have never been this far away from family before and nobody in my family has met him in person yet. also our relationship was kind of rocky at first but it got better. i think it was because he was scared. all of our family is really happy and are already talking about names, i just feal like it happened to fast. it hasn't reall sunk in yet, you know the factthat i am pregnant. i mean i am excited but can't believe it's happening, in my family we have problems on the women side, we have problems with our cervix, just 3 years ago i found out i had cervical cancer. i thought then i would never be able to have children and if i did maybe only one. i am scared and don't know what to do?
2007-03-22 18:05:45 · 9 answers · asked by mummy2B 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Chill. Do NOT EVER DRINK ALCOHOL WHILE YOU ARE PREGNANT!!!!! PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF YOUR CHILD!
But, aside from that you can look into online support groups, and books and such. Hard to say what you can find there, but I am sure you will be just fine.
And always remember, if things are ment to be, they will happen. You do your very besy to keep yourself and the baby healthy, and the rest is in our Spirit Guides hands....so to speak.
2007-03-22 18:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by The Canadian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll be OK. MY sister just had her first baby at the age of 19 also. She was just as scared and didn't know what to do as you are. But know that she has here baby on this earth she is so happy. She said"When you see your kid for the first time it all hits you". You will be fine!!!
Don't smoke, drink, oh and no caffeine. That is all BAD for the baby if you are concerned about you having cervix cancer in the past see a doctor and talk to him about it!
2007-03-24 12:37:03 · answer #2 · answered by teenmodelhot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just breath. You never know whats going to happen even though a professional may say something it's never period.. the end. Things happen for a reason and this time it's you. Congrats on being pregnant and don't stress about other things. Just enjoy the precious moments between you and your unborn. Again Congrats!
2007-03-22 18:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by missnmyhuny 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will be fine. I believe you have to get married in the US air force to stay together or request posts together but you should be able to go home on terminal leave before the baby is born.
You are very lucky that everyone is so supportive of you.
2007-03-22 18:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by maxtonamvl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK. My fiance has cervical cancer she has had it since 17 but they never did anything about it until now she is 28 now she has had 5 kids and her first one was at 18 yrs. old. SHe wasn't around her family either. She just told me to tell you to calm down and take deep breathes everything will be ok. If you ever need to talk email her at my email address
2007-03-22 18:12:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hope for the best and pray for the worst. talk it over with your doctor with what you should do to keep both you and your baby healthy. this isn't just about you anymore so you have to think a little less selfishly now. i hope all goes wll with you and your baby. good luck.
2007-03-22 18:34:46 · answer #6 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea the fact that no one knows his is weird but dont worry everything is going to be fine especially if everyone is supporting you!!!
2007-03-22 18:29:52 · answer #7 · answered by Erika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go to a doctor.
2007-03-22 18:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by speedy >>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're 19 and pregnant?!
2007-03-22 18:22:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋