yesterday at school i had a maths test that i didnt want to go to so me and my friend decised to go to the counciler we had nothing to talk about so my friend started to make up this story that we went to a party and some guy tryed to touch me and that i couldnt remeber what happened after that and the counciler said that she needs to call me mum and today the police rang and asked if i wanted to press chargers i said no and told him that i spoke to the guy and he said nothing happened , but he said he still needs tocome over and 4 me to sign a book, but i told him nothing
happened at the party cause i couldnt tell him that we were lying and my mum isnt going to believe me and she is going to think this is all true im stuck i just want to get out of this mess what should i do????
2007-03-22 18:03:47 · 19 answers · asked by ♥Suductive-bayb♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
oops! everyone makes mistakes. unfortunately, this is a pretty big rut you're in. it's tough, but it's best to just tell the truth and learn from your wrongs. the more you try to hide things, the harder it is going to be to keep track of your lies.
2007-03-22 18:26:54 · answer #1 · answered by dietcokeaddict 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The counsellor shouldn't have called the police, isn't there such thing as confidentiality at your school. but that's beside the point.
You need to admit you lied to your mum and the counsellor. Or if you're not mature enough, tell the police and the counsellor that you don't want to press charges and that you exaggerated the situation and that what the guy did was consensual. But now you've learnt a valuable lesson. It doesn't pay to lie. Now don't repeat your mistakes, because lies just lead to more lies and you've dug yourself into a pretty deep whole here.
2007-03-23 01:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by jo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you've just learned a hard lesson .... one of many to be sure.
Now it's time to come clean. The only right thing to do is tell the truth. If you keep building on this lie it's only gonna dig you in deeper. On top of that , nobody will ever trust you . How can they believe you if you think it's ok to lie. Not to mention the fact that if you continue with this story you will eventually have to give a name so you will be accusing some guy of something he didn't do. Is that right? I don't think so. Do the right thing , you will feel much better if you come clean.
P.S. everyone makes mistakes .... it's what you do about them that makes the difference ..... will you be the kind of person who lives their life tangled in lies ? your choice !
2007-03-23 01:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by uncle louie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a perfect example about why lying about this kinda stuff isn't funny. You need to go back to your councilor and fess up. Wouldn't it just have been easier to take the test? I'm not trying to lecture you but think how concerned your guidance councilor and you mom are. I can understand wanting to get out of a test but you guys definitely crossed the line making that kind of a story up.
2007-03-23 01:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by lizo0110 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell the truth. The school staff had to call because she is mandated by the school to inform child protective services. Tell the counciler the truth. Be honest and tell the police the truth also.
2007-03-23 01:11:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am afraid that the truth is the truth does set you free. Tell the truth, accept and take responsibility for the consequences. It's funny how when we lie usually to get out of something we end up in more of it than we would have in the first place. It will work out.
2007-03-23 01:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by darkstar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It reminds me of the story of the boy who cried wolf. See what you get when you tell someone something that did not happen and people are there to show you care and concern. It is your doing girl, so just face the music. Take it as a lesson.
2007-03-23 01:08:54 · answer #7 · answered by happy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have gone to the math test.Liars always get caught and you proved it. Why would you do something so stupid? Now if you told them about this so called non existing guy or even if he is, like you gave them a name, the guy will be involved too. You deserve what you get, you did this to yourself, live with the consequences.
2007-03-23 10:04:10 · answer #8 · answered by sshhmmee2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The counselor is obligated by the law the contact the police in a situation such as this. I think that it would be best for you to tell everyone the truth
2007-03-23 01:08:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
is your name emily? cause that story sounds really familiar. if it is you get my number from shauna or kathy and call me. if its not, you really need to go to the police and tell them the truth now before it goes any farther. or, if you never gave the guys name, don't give them a name and say you never saw him before or since. if you admit you are a liar you will get into BIG trouble for filing a false police report. but i bet you learned your lesson huh? next time think of a story that won't involve someone breaking the law!! or just go to class and get a good education. good luck!
2007-03-23 01:12:37 · answer #10 · answered by heather l 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋