my friend have been asking from me $12 tat i owe her since our friendship has ended...but my jacket is still with her...i told her tat if she return my jacket then i will return the money...but she told me tat she passed my jacket to someone who she dun knw...and is none of her business...so i didnt return the money,i just could not stand when she keep scolding me tat the money go to my funeral and i am small (humji)... i feeling quite depressed..wad shld i do?
2007-03-22 17:57:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
shld i fight against her or let go? if i let go,i feel tat i get bulllied easily and no guts...
2007-03-22 18:06:10 · update #1
i willing to return the money but she just keep smsed me that i am a liar and a stealer
2007-03-22 18:08:34 · update #2
just pay the $12 and be more careful of who you befriend next time...
Remember: tit for "tat", my friend
2007-03-22 18:01:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You admit that you owe her the money. Pay her back the jacket and the money are entirely separate issues. You did not rent her the jacket! Give her back the money and move on.
2007-03-23 01:03:41 · answer #2 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she won't be getting the $12, it is payment for the jacket that she gave away when it wasn't hers to give.
If she keeps up with the nagging tell her you'll give her the $12 when she hands over your jacket. She gave it away and it's her job to get it back.
2007-03-23 01:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you would consider the $12 as compensation to the jacket that she borrowed. She has the obligation to return the jacket and has no business to pass it on to another without your consent.
2007-03-23 01:02:42 · answer #4 · answered by dondatu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah, get over it chica. tell her to do the same, you're jacket probably was more than $12 anyhow, so just say that her money was in that jacket that you leant her. usually i'd tell people to pay them back but she should know better to not give what isn't hers, so she shouldn't get what is hers.
2007-03-23 01:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by Kihara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what should you do? this is going to sound harsh, but it is quite simple: F*CK HER and buy another jacket. unless this jacket could send you back in time or has the cure for cancer, it is replaceable. just buy another jacket and let her keep bitching about her money.
2007-03-23 01:03:16 · answer #6 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pay her what you owe and move on.
It is the honorable thing to do.
She may be an *** for taking your jacket.
But you aren't so pay her back.
2007-03-23 01:02:22 · answer #7 · answered by Steph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who would pass on an ex-friend's jacket to someone she doesn't know?
but still, i think u should just give her back her 12 bucks and move on to someone else.
and choose wisely when picking friends, too, because i don't think a friend would give another friend's jacket to someone she doesn't know...
2007-03-23 01:07:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she isnt giving you the jacket then she should you owe money because she should be paying for that jacket.
2007-03-23 01:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by mary m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tat?? give her the $12 and let go of it
2007-03-23 01:04:46 · answer #10 · answered by Bakka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋