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i think i might be pregnant...or i might b panicing....well it happened on the 10th.... i was supose to get my period on the 16...i have been a little late before...
afterwords, i wiped myself off...he did pull out...and he used a condom some of the time...and 3 hours later after i got home i sat in a warm bath.
i havnt been feeling any different, but i am so scared.
i need to know symptoms that i would be noticing by now... PLEASE DONT MAKE ME SOUND LIKE A BAD PERSON
i feel guilty already and i regret it. i never realy thought it was the best idea but i did it any way
what should i do???
MATURE ANSWERS PLEASE

Answer 1

Well, what you should do is go and get a pregnancy test. I do have one question for you though and PLEASE don't take this the wrong way. Was it his idea to not use protection? It is okay to panic and sometimes when you are stressed, it can have an effect on your cycle. Just try to calm down and relax and go and get the pregnancy test done. You can go to your local health department and get a test done right there. It's a little early to tell but if your appetite picks up a WHOLE lot, and if morning sickness occurs, then you could be pregnant. But go and get the pregnancy test done ASAP!!!

Answer 2

First of all, don't think that U R a "bad person," cuz we are only human and we DO make mistakes.

Next...at your age, periods r very often not "on time" and can be irregular.

Also...if ya don't really do "total protection" during sex...and I mean EVERY time, U R "playing with fire"! SO do be careful.

It is most likely that U R NOT pregnant, but U COULD be. Go to the pharmacy/drug store and buy a home test...follow the directions!!

If U still don't have your period soon, try to get a counselor at school, or some adult that U can trust to talk to. I know this is hard, but they deal with this kinda stuff all the time. They will think of U as being a "strong person" for owning up to what happened. U need emotional support, as well as someone to guide your decisions...and just plain tell ya how to best deal with all of this.

The most obvious thing would be to see a Gynogologist doc, but I know it's not easy at your age.

You've done the right thing just by asking for help here...so pat yerself on the back for that!!

I think the first sign of pregnancy other than a missed period is "morning sickness"...like U get up and wanna puke...and U DO!

Take it easy...U have ppl out there to help U, and U are addressing this early on! Good for you! : )

There are always options even if U were found to be pregnant, but the main thing is to learn from mistakes, and be careful (I know this is hard too).

Best of luck to U, and it WILL work out somehow, no matter what.

Answer 3

well if he wore a condom all the time then the chances are slim to none but i am guessing that by you saying some of the time the last time you did it he did not it is a possibility and you are not a bad person for having sex that is human nature even if you take a bath after wards you can still be pregnant you can even get pregnant by pre ejaculation (it comes before the real ejaculation) some women get sick some women's breast hurt some women have no signs at all the best thin for you to do is to take a pregnancy test to find out for sure good luck

Answer 4

If he only used a condom some of the time then anything is possible. You should wait a few more days to see if you get your cycle. If not, it would be to early for you to have any symptoms so I would suggest that you get yourself a test from your local drug store or your local planned parent hood center.

I dont wanna sound like your momma or anything, nor do i wanna sound mean but please if your going to have sex just please make sure your partner wears a condom at all times. There are a lot of other worst things out there other than a baby.

Answer 5

What are the Early Signs of Pregnancy?

There are several early signs of pregnancy that, considered individually, may be accountable to other conditions, but taken together are a pretty clear indication of pregnancy.

The earliest sign of pregnancy is usually a missed menstrual cycle, however, this isn't a foolproof indication. Many women do not have regular periods, making it harder to judge if a cycle is late. Still others might experience light bleeding at their first menstrual cycle after becoming pregnant. In fact, about one in five women experience light bleeding through their first trimester.

Fatigue is also an early sign of pregnancy. Engaging in normal activities might leave you more winded than usual. Your stamina will decrease with pregnancy, as your body will be using much of its energy to go towards the physical changes required for pregnancy.

Hormonal changes will also be taking place, which can make you feel like you are coming down with the flu. You may have dry heaves or vomiting during the first 6-14 weeks of pregnancy. Though this is referred to as morning sickness it can happen at any time of the day or night.

Another early sign of pregnancy is changes to the breasts. The areolas will darken and the breasts themselves will become tender and full, much like the symptoms of premenstrual syndrome (PMS).

Cravings for different foods that you usually don't eat, often accompanies pregnancy. Have you noticed that you usually like sweets but have been craving salty foods lately? Or perhaps the opposite is true?

A general crampiness or bloating of the pelvic area can also be an early sign of pregnancy and may be accompanied by constipation. Again, these symptoms can mimic PMS, and many women find themselves wondering which it is!

Frequent urination is one more early sign of pregnancy, and occurs again at the end of the pregnancy. Do you feel like you've been running to the bathroom more often than usual?

The easiest way to determine if you are pregnant short of visiting a doctor's office is to take a home pregnancy test. These tests measure a hormone that is produced during pregnancy, called human chorionic gonadotropin (hCG). The pregnancy test consists of a chemically treated strip. Urine placed on the strip interacts with the chemicals and within a couple of minutes the strip turns color, indicating a negative (not pregnant) or positive (pregnant) result.

Though pregnancy tests will often indicate you can test on the first day of a missed period, it may take up to 10 days or more before sufficient quantities of hCG are present as to be detected by these tests. Therefore a negative result prior to 10-14 days may be a false indication, and you may actually be pregnant. If your period does not start after 10 days, or if it was much lighter than usual, try the pregnancy test at that time. If you still get a negative result wait a few more days and try once more.

A doctor can perform a blood test that will be able to detect much lower levels of hCG than a home pregnancy test, making it accurate even in the first days of pregnancy. This is an option for women who do not wish to wait for a definitive result.

Though many common early signs of pregnancy have been mentioned here, it is important to note that not everyone will experience these symptoms. Don't let a lack of symptoms convince you are not pregnant, if you have reason to believe you might be. Instead, use a home pregnancy test or see a doctor to verify your condition.

If the early signs of pregnancy are present, and especially if you have verified that you are pregnant with a home pregnancy test, be sure to make an appointment with your doctor right away. The sooner your pregnancy is verified, the sooner you can start taking care of yourself and plan for the future!

wiseGEEK
http://www.wisegeek.com/what-are-the-early-signs-of-pregnancy.htm

Answer 6

I think that you should go ahead and get a pregnancy test just to be on the safe side. On the other hand, I really feel like stress is the main reason why your period is late. It's alright to be concerned, but just play it safe and get a pregnancy test just to be sure. I am sure that everything will work out fine.

Answer 7

youre not a bad person. i was in your exact same situation.

the earliest symptom i noticed (about 2 weeks later) is my breasts were getting huge...i was like whoa thats pretty cool, whatever.....and then they got kinda sore. i was dumb though, and it wasnt til i was getting sick (nauseous) in the mornings before work and complained to my bf about it that he was like.......Youre probably pregnant!! so i took a test, and it was positive

lol hope u have different results than i did.

if youre unsure, then take a test (first response will detect it early, i think therye kinda expensive tho but it will stop ur worrying...)
but if you dont have any of those symptoms by now especially the sore or tender breasts then i wouldnt worry about it!!!

(maybe consider going on the pill tho?)

Answer 8

Chances are you aren't pregnant. The first thing is obviously a missed period. You may have sore and tender breasts, you may start to feel a little nauseous. You may have no other symptoms at all apart from a missed period. You should just do a test to put you mind at rest.

Answer 9

sometimes the pull out and pray method works for some woman others it dont. it has for me the last 7 years and i have never been pregnant with the pull out method. and if you are paranoid about pregnancy odds are your period will be late. just go to the dollar store and get a test. and when its negative i bet youll start your period soon.

Answer 10

u should go buy a home pregnancy test and take it first pee in the morning