And no....I don't want to hear any happily ever after stories...although I'm happy for those that made it work. My marriage was a joke and my hubby is the one that has done all the laughing. I've cried more than I smiled during this marriage...loved him with my everything...and it was not enough. He is such a jerk!! Who else married an idiot?
2007-03-22 17:43:15 · 9 answers · asked by caramelqueen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nope, loved every minute of it.
2007-03-22 17:49:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had to work hard to hold my marriage together. I weathered through six affairs in 49 years, hers. What can I say, I love her, yes, I could have taken the kids at any time and left but hung on. No, marriage is not a joke, it's a lot of work and sweat. Most people I know have worked hard at it. Sure, there are some that run for an attorney when things got bad right away and took the easy way out.
No one said it was a ball game, no one told me it was going to be a bed of roses and when things started going wrong my mother told me to hang in there and hold tight, it was going to be a storm, it was.
Yes, I cried, and fought, I mistakenly beat the crap out of a couple of guys in my earlier days, almost killed one. It didn't make it any easier. It helped me for awhile. Things have calmed down now that were older, no one knows what's happen in our life and it'll stay that way. At times I've wanted to scream from the tallest building what's happen and tell the kids all about mom but, what would that bring, I love her and always will, she knows that. She knows the suffering she put me through. No, it's not a bed of roses. For sure.
2007-03-22 18:04:32 · answer #2 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage isn't a joke and 3 times I took it very serious. Of course, the 3rd time was the charm...but you didn't want to hear about happy marriages.
The first two weren't jokes of guys but I was stupid in what I was looking for. I thought someone that looked after me was good...not. That meant that he wanted to control me.
Second husband was supposed to be secure for me...again, not. He wanted me to work, cook and clean for him. Then, he tried to kill me. Does it say stupid on my forehead? Don't answer ;-).
Third time...I was already standing on my own two feet. No one could or will ever budge me from my beliefs, my ability or my desire to be just who I am. If they can enhance it - cool. If not, get lost. I'm a good person with a great heart. When I met my third husband I finally figured it out. That was more than 10 years ago and we are just as close as we were then.
If he's a jerk...leave. Don't look back. No woman should ever be treated less than a princess. Doesn't mean she should take advantage of a guy but she should be treated with respect, kindness and love.
You and your marriage isn't a joke but your staying one day longer will be.
Good luck.
2007-03-22 17:52:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many of us married the wrong person but concentrating on the negative in life does not enhance one's mood or disposition. Having rectified the situation via a court of law have now happily moved on and busy creating a very positive lifestyle that I am not sure I would like to invite anyone to share. I have discovered the joy of being single.
2007-03-22 17:49:59 · answer #4 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married a jerk the first time. This time, (4 years after the divorce), I have married a wonderful man. Just be single for awhile, don't look for a man and be happy with yourself. It is then you will meet a great guy and it will work out because you want to be with him, not because you want to be with anyone.
2007-03-22 18:10:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have some jokes in my past---.My first ex husband just called a few nights ago to talk to me about his girlfriend for about an hour. I think he is falling in love. Second marriage did not last long. Third marriage he put everyone else first-i am so glad i am over him. I am happy again.
2007-03-22 18:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, if people think Marriage is a Joke, then what do they think Divorce is? Cuz I hate to think all my effort that I put into my Marriage was a laughing matter, and I absolutely found nothing Hilarious about my Divorce!!!!
2007-03-22 19:40:01 · answer #7 · answered by Skinz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had a wife who died of a brain tumor and married a ***** on the rebound who took me to the cleaners and poisoned my family against me. Oh, so pleasant I sure deseved it!
2007-03-22 22:19:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i married an idiot and now im divorced from that idiot and he gets to be a idiot all by himself now and im sure hes doing it well
2007-03-22 17:47:37 · answer #9 · answered by Sparky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋