My 2.5 years old love relation ended last november... It was a real shock for me.. Now I came to know that the girl is marrying someone else.. I was learning how to live without her slowly.. But, it makes me really upset now when I imagine her with someone else.. What to do..?? I think I need someone really loving to heal this.. What u say..??
2007-03-22 17:34:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
time heals all wounds best wishes to you
2007-03-22 17:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by dee_ann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that in order for you to heal, you need to find it in your own heart. No one can set a time limit on how long it takes for some one to heal. So don't let the fact that you are still getting over her affect you. Love is a very strong emotion, it can be very powerful. And sometimes we get so deep in love, that we just don't know how to get over our feelings.
You need some kind of closer. Why don't you just talk to her, and let her know how you feel, and then try your best to let her go. Say good-bye to her. Then when she is getting married, get away for awhile, go with some friends, or family. Have some fun, and then maybe meet some sweet girls. But remember that only you can fix this. You will never forget your first love, but in time it will only be a good memory.
2007-03-23 02:08:06 · answer #2 · answered by woman of steel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really love her, let her go... Let her be with the one she loves.
For u, u've gotta move on. It hurts like crazy and it makes u feel crazy but u've gotta take it in ur stride.
Keep watever things tt may remind u of her in a box, out of ur sight.
Start walking with ur heads up, shoulder back and a smile upon ur face. Why? Coz u're a great guy.
Take ur time to find someone new. Dun rush into relationships. This is a good time for u to evaluate urself and give urself some breathing space.
Enjoy Life.
Learn to love Life.
And love urself more. Only then wld u be able to love another.
Patience, man... Take care!
2007-03-23 00:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by MISSinterpreted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you love her that much, just think that she would be happier marrying another guy or something like that.
If that doesn't help, than i think that you should just move on and find someone that is even more better than she was.
but if you are not willing to move on, and you stay in your position forever, you will be in pain for a long time, unless you realize that she was probably better off without you.
2007-03-23 01:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes the Pain May Never go away but once you move on and find someone else that you love it will all kinda fade the memories will always be but go out and make new ones. give it time, you'll see.
2007-03-23 01:42:37 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes marrying someone else, move on, it may hurt and you may be lonely but once the lonliness is gone it will start to get better good luck , leave her alone she isnt worth it anymore man , SHES USED GOODS
2007-03-23 00:38:32 · answer #6 · answered by Sparky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time. It's going to take awhile GL dude.
2007-03-23 00:38:04 · answer #7 · answered by Momof1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww thats sad... i would just try to find someone new.. it hurts b/c it was a big shock in your life.
2007-03-23 00:45:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you love her. that is why, but you need to move on.
2007-03-23 00:37:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some knew cootchie to get whooped on!lol!
2007-03-23 00:37:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋