I love my wife and I love my other woman. How do you feel about it?

Answer 1

That sounds a lot like my dad's situation. Except in his case he has three women that he loves deeply. Oh and they are all totally different in age from each other. He loves my mom so much that it almost hurts. I remember when I was younger and a very nosy little girl he and my mom seemed to be constantly be locking their bedroom door when I wanted to go in there to see what they were doing. They would yell at me "Becky mommy and daddy are having special mommy and daddy time". I thought they were reading books or something.

He is also deeply in love with an older woman. She is also married to another man, my grandfather.

Well there's a very pretty and sexy young woman that he loves too. They probably will never have sex together because she's in love with a boy her own age. Also even though she's cute as a button he isn't really attracted to her in that way. I bet you can guess who that is.

I hope your second love is either your mother or your daughter.
Chow

Answer 2

I don't believe that you really love them both. You may think so but it's not true. You are saying that to excuse your actions. I believe that an affair gives you excitement that is missing in your marriage.
I predict a lot of pain and heartache for you, your wife and the other woman. And the kids, if there are any.
If you want an advice you have to end this situation now. I'm not saying which woman you should be with. Deep down you know yourself. But prolonging this situation is unhealthy. You are hurting all parties involved and the longer it lasts the worse it becomes. If you are a decent human being there is no happiness in such a relationship but guilt and shame.

Answer 3

Its only you who can decide. But sometimes it is very hard to decide when you are in the actual situation. But the main cause why you are hooked with the other woman is that you are looking for something that your wife cant give you. If you can still step backward for a while and think about the good things that happened with you and your wife, does she deserves this. If you cant justify it, something is wrong then something is wrong. But surely no one can guarantee that they will not be attracted to others. For as long you can manage, it all depends on you. But be prepared if the same things will happen to you, how would you react?

Answer 4

you are a selfish peice of work. Why did you get married. I am sure you have a wife at home who knows nothing. How would you feel if she was out screwing around on you. Would you be able to accept her loving someone else and you. I hope the table do turn on you and you find her in the bed with another man. You cant be mad right....u did it too

Answer 5

I feel that you are being unfair to both of them, and you might get left in the dirt. Stop the affair, tell your wife the truth, and see how well you do just standing on your own without the support of either woman. You don't deserve either one of them.

Answer 6

I think just love this. Reading these responses from disgusted people. You should tell your wife. Maybe she will say "I love you and I love another man as well..."

Answer 7

You don't really love your wife

Answer 8

If I were your wife, I would feel deeply hurtened. If I knew about it I would go ballistic and ask you to choose. Even if you choose me, I still would have trouble believing you anyway. I hope your other woman knows about the wife ;)

Answer 9

I think it is very cruel and heartless to be doing what you are doing. I broke up with a man about nine months ago, who revealed to me he was married. This news had a negative effect on my mental and physical health. I started feeling depressed which led me to not having an appetite and I lost 12 pounds. I still haven't regained my appetite. You are cruel and evil.

Answer 10

I feel like you don't really love your wife, else you wouldn't cheat on her.