If your hubby was checking out your best friend, how would you handle this?

Question

and to add a bit more to this "flame" she was acting "funny" around you? what would you say to her...would you still keep her as a best friend? yes or no?
also would you keep the hubby? yes or no?
why or why not?

one more thing...this is just a "what if" ?...I luckily do NOT have this problem! Whew! !

Answer 1

keep hubby and have long talk with friend.

Answer 2

First of all. You dont trust this woman so dont call her your best friend. I certaintly wouldn't allow them to hang out alone together thats pretty obvious.

Keep her as a friend? No. But not because you think shes a threat. Simply because you dont trust her.

As for the hubby? I wouldnt ask for a divorce just yet. Snoop for clues if you have to. When your suppose to be somewhere else and you knew the hubby will be home, drive by the house once in a while, or drive by her house to see if his car is there. Do this for a week tops and if you dont find anything then forget it. Its too easily to get obsessed with finding clues to know if your hubbys cheating. Sooner or later you question everything and start believing that little things are proof they are sleeping together.

OR

Do the adult thing and mention to your husband your insecurity, that you think they are sleeping together and do not start with, "I know your sleeping together!"! Pay close attention to his reaction...his eyes should tell you everything you need to know.

Answer 3

I would check my hubby. And ask my best friend if she has noticed how my hubby has been looking at her. And before that question comes at ask her what's wrong why has she been acting so funny because it may be something. Your hubby probably came on to her wrong and she is now uncomfortable around you two. I would just investigate .

Answer 4

obviously the hubby isnt completely devoted.if the friend is not reacting 2 the hubbys extra attention hes shown then the friends ok jus let her no that hes doin it.n tell the husband its not aceptable behaviour n u wnt ttolerate it no matter how much you love them oops jus read the friend is actin funny then inthis case go crazy on her *** n tell the whore to ship on out n the husband2 eitha get a grip or 2 get lost as well

Answer 5

Oh well, id talk to ur bestfriend n ur hubby first, n if they dont stop thats when u stop making friends wit her, bout the hubby, u should keep him wit u if he still wants to be wit n if he still loves u. always communicate..
u shouldnt make friends wit some one who fools around wit u, ud only end up getting hurt.
shes not treating u as a friend n no respect for u if shes foolin around wit ur hubby.

Answer 6

in the first place you need to own up to this.....I love how you make fun of its not me...lol....
if you are that insecure with talking about it then maybe you are too insecure about what is going on...on the other hand sit them down and tell them how you feel about every thing'...you will know the truth by the way they answer you.........don't be afraid to ask...and to tell people how you feel.......hope this help....God Bless and talk to you later.....

Answer 7

Have some fun, invite both of them to have a 3 some with you.

Answer 8

Well if there both acting funny, that means there proply dating behind your back. YOU just need to get confodence and go up to one of them and ask them, are you guys dating behind my back? if they say yes dumb both of them, thats no friendship or relationship....thats low.

Answer 9

well it really depends if it really that bad, but i would talk to my friend first before i just go dump her.

Answer 10

I would have a long talk with your husband.

Then I would have a long talk with your friend.


Then ask yourself, which one can you trust?