2007-03-22 16:56:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ok...i've known him for about 5 years. we don't go together we never have...he actually said we never will. the "baby's mother" is currently pregnant..but i think like if he knows its his child before she even has it...hmmm....i know they have history they went to school together... and when we met he was out of school..but im with him everyday..but i have took him to her house..( not willingly...a different topic) they talk constantly..he see's her constantly...we had an argument and he says take me to her house..i love him with all my heart..but i mean when she got pregnant we were not talking and yes i have a baby too..and it happenend when we weren't talkin but me and my childs father don't have a relationship only money...i think he love's her but he tells me different...i don't know if he's concerned about the child or does he want to be with her and im just always good for the time being..we're always on and off ...now its on..will it be off when he ready to b with her...again?
2007-03-23 03:19:13 · update #1
Not necessarily. That's certainly most common but some kids will switch back and forth. They usually choose Mom over Dad because Mom is around more, that's all, don't sweat it.
2007-03-22 16:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by Big Brother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to understand that he has a child with this woman and will always have to have some sort of contact with her. He will always have some feelings for her, she gave birth to his child, she brought him his child. Get over it, if you can't except it, then you need not to be with a man that has a child.
2007-03-22 17:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
the babys mm was the first adult connection he should be a top rate dad,but he did not choose to marry her so perhaps he needs to further examine his true feelings to you
2007-03-22 16:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have finished the question, who are you? girlfriend, mother......
i think he should choose his babys mother everytime, unless they are seperated and you are the new girlfriend, his child comes first, then girlfriend. the babies mom should be treated with respect, but thats it.
2007-03-22 16:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by ICEBOX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SORRY TO SAY BUT BEING A MOTHER OF A MAN'S CHILD , THERE WIL ALWAYS BE THAT BOND
2007-03-22 17:35:10 · answer #5 · answered by whateverbabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RIGHT NOW YOU ARE FEELING INSECURE,AND I CAN'T REALLY SAY WHAT YOU BOYFRIEND IS GOING TO DO AT THIS TIME,ALL I CAN SAY IS TALK WITH HIM.
2007-03-22 16:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by roll tide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋