i think i might be pregnant...or i might b panicing....well it happened on the 10th.... i was supose to get my period on the 16...i have been a little late before...
afterwords, i wiped myself off...he did pull out...and he used a condom some of the time...and 3 hours later after i got home i sat in a warm bath.
i havnt been feeling any different, but i am so scared.
i need to know symptoms that i would be noticing by now... PLEASE DONT MAKE ME SOUND LIKE A BAD PERSON
i feel guilty already and i regret it. i never realy thought it was the best idea but i did it any way
what should i do???
MATURE ANSWERS PLEASE
2007-03-22 16:53:45 · 20 answers · asked by Mel051293 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
How is this life threatening? You're just an attention seeker asking this 3times.
You need to learn to keep your legs closed, your 13 years old.
Chances are you havn't had your period very long so it'll be irregular anyway.
Get a pregnancy test and stop asking the same question.
2007-03-22 21:45:34 · answer #1 · answered by ★☆✿❀ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay I'm guessing you had sex on the 10th? If you have a normal cycle that wouldn't of been the day you ovulated. The best thing you can do is buy a pregnacy test. I got pregnant at 18 had a beautiful little girl at 19 got pregnant again at 19 and had another beautiful little girl at 20. So I know what its like to be pregnant and scared. I am however very fortunate that my childrens father stayed. Not every woman has that luxury. I really think that you should buy a pregnancy test you can get them for a dollar at the dollar store. And if you are too embarassed to buy them perhaps you aren't mature enough for sex. Not saying your a bad person but there are consequences to every decision.
2007-03-23 00:03:13 · answer #2 · answered by Justine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first you are not a bad person. Teenagers do some silly things and then, sorry to tell you this, there are consequences.
Second, there is an old joke: What do you call people who pull out? Parents! Yeah, you can get pregnant this way. I did. She's two now.
Sweetheart, the best thing you can do is get a preg test. Go to a clinic, a pharmacy, Walmart...you don't need an expensive test. They are all pretty much the same prinicple. Follow the directions and find out.
THEN...if you aren't....lesson learned, right?
BUT if you ARE...you need to tell your parents. They will probably be upset/angry/frustrated/disappointed. But they will get over it. It's not like you're the Unibomber or Kalid Sheik Mohammed, right? You haven't ended the world. You do have options.
Take a look at this website. This is one of them...
2007-03-23 00:01:46 · answer #3 · answered by Fotomama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok don't freak out hun. I'm 16 and I'm pregnant right now. I'm 8 weeks along. First thing to know is don't freak out just yet. I thought I was pregnant many times before it actually happend. So just wait it out for about a week. Buy a home pregnancy test.
I didn't know I was pregnant for sure until I was 6 weeks along but I kind of had a suspicion stronger then all the other times. If you're like me you won't be really hungry or craving weird things that comes alittle later in pregnancy. but I was alittle more moody and emotional. Then I felt tired alot of the times it almost felt like i was getting ready to start my period. I started to feel nauseous but I'm lucky and I haven't thrown up yet and morning sickness is supposed to occur anywhere from about 3 weeks to 6 weeks. You're boobs might be sore. But not everyone is the same it all depends on your body. some people have really noticeable symptoms and some don't. But the best thing you can do is try not to panic and if your pregnancy test does come back positive you're going to have to tell your parents (if you're under 18) this can be scary so to make it less scary talk to another adult about it first who can help explain when you tell your parents. Like i told my boyfriends parents first and they didn't freak out at all and they helped me tell my mom.
Anyways I hope I've helped you
2007-03-23 00:05:03 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Sarah♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, honestly, if you had sex on the 10th and your period was due on the 16th, you are most likely not pregnant. Most of the time you will ovulate 14 days before your next period is due, give or take a day or two. If you have irregular cycles, your chances will be higher, but if you are fairly regular each month, there is a very low chance you are pregnant. That being said, make sure to use reliable protection from now on EVERY TIME unless and until you are ready to be a mommy! Best of luck.
2007-03-23 11:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by megan w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First go buy a home pregnancy kit from your local chemist/pharmacy/drugstore.
If it comes bag positive go see a gp and they should have some advice for what to do next.
There are lots of options available for you and lots of support networks that you can access... but first get a test so that you know for sure.
And next time, use a condom all the time, or look into female contraception like a pill or implanon... I don't think a warm bath is very effective birth control.
good luck sweety, it's a hard way to learn!
2007-03-23 00:02:52 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're that nervous that you might be pregnant, then buy a pregnancy test at the drugstore and find out for certain. Remember that sometimes stress can cause your period to be late, so you might not be pregnant, just scared.
The methods that you used aren't going to work. If you're going to have sex and don't want to get pregnant or get STDs, you need to use a condom.
2007-03-23 00:00:24 · answer #7 · answered by grinonli 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you had sex too late in your cycle for you to be pregnant. And sounds like you did everything right unless somehow something got in there before he pulled out. Take a pregnancy test if no period in a couple days.
2007-03-23 00:01:09 · answer #8 · answered by mommy2london 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to go get a pregnancy test. Check in your phone book and see if there is a birthright clinic in your city, they will give you a free pregnancy test and won't tell your parents, they will also help to advise you if you are pregnant. i was a teenage mom and I hope to God for your sake that you are not pregnant, make sure from now on you ALWAYS use a condom, pregnancy isn't the only thing you need to be careful of. Also is there is no birthright clinic talk to Planned Parenthood
2007-03-23 00:00:33 · answer #9 · answered by dreamer2606 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off, you wouldn't have any stmtoms yet. Stress could cause a late period. Wait a week and then take a pregnacy test. Next time remember, , USE A CONDOM, or don't have sex at all
2007-03-22 23:57:56 · answer #10 · answered by I luv me some chris breezy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋