ok heres the thing I have a boyfriend and he is really shy but i am not and I am ready for the next step in our relationship (French kissing) we kiss like lip to lip but no tounge or nothen...and I dont know if that will mess everything up or me mentioning or trying it would mess our relationship up...what should I do?
2007-03-22 16:53:38 · 9 answers · asked by cutiebabe66048@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
omg! i had this same problem!! he was SO shy. we sat out in my driveway till 6 am talking about this. it was so awkward and nerve racking! i sugested we try it and if he was too nervous afterward, we would slow down again. But turns out he was jsut scared id think he was a bad kisser! [ im his first girlfriend ] We was actually REALY good. but it was awkward..now, we are a year down the road and engaged. maybe you should try this. perhaps not the driveway till 6 am part..but it could help you.
good luck!!
2007-03-22 17:03:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 08:47:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be a little awkward, but you should ask him. I don't think asking will mess your relationship up unless you pressure him to do something he doesn't want to. Either way, it's good to open about these sorts of things.
2007-03-22 16:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by Marie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make your move. But trust me... don't discuss it with him before you do. If he is really shy he might get embarrassed and not want to try. He is probably wanting to start french kissing too, but is too shy to make the first move!! GO FOR IT!!!!
2007-03-22 16:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by lillitaamojavy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, If he doesn't want that, then you shouldn't do it. Maybe just ask him and you will know the answer. Communication is the best!
2007-03-22 17:02:35 · answer #5 · answered by doris_38133 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he wants cause sometimes u cant control ur self in doing that
2007-03-22 19:11:32 · answer #6 · answered by Chyna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some standard girl!
good luck.
2007-03-22 16:57:50 · answer #7 · answered by hate the sand ~ love the castle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
take your time if it is meant to be nature will take the course.
2007-03-22 17:00:56 · answer #8 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r u?
2007-03-22 17:01:54 · answer #9 · answered by hotz2007_1981 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋