Should I take self defense classes?

Question

Well, this girl has been harrassing me for almost 2 years. She told her mom that she was staying the night with me [ i didn't know about it], the next day her mom calls and asks where she was at. I told her that the night before she said something about going 50 miles away from where we live. Ever since then, she has been my enemy. She threatened to beat me up, she threatened to do it while i had my little sister with me. She calls my house. I admit I have a fear of her. I have never said anything back and I have tried walking away. For the last year I have not been able to go outside alone. I hate it! My mom refuses to tell the police because the girl does not care. The girl has already been to jail 3 times. Should i take self- defense classes?? Any advice?? Thanks

Answer 1

Yeah definitely take self-defense classes and make sure you carry some type of sharp object with you .. Like maybe a knife. If she attacks you, you can threaten her with your knife (you don't have to use it). And if she has some problem with you, why is she harrasing your little sister? That's a bad influence on her. Even if she does not care about going to jail or the police, you should still report her. It' doesnt hurt to report her heinous behaviour. What a pathetic loser! Anyways, you should definitely look into some type of way to defend yourself and don't be that afraid of her. Show her that you have confidence and you don't care about what she says. That way she'll be less interested in intimidating you because you wont give her the response she's looking for and she'll get bored

Answer 2

i think u should take self defence classes only because .it dont hurt to learn how to protect yourself because this world is getting a lot rougher than when i was a kid,it dont hurt to learn even if u never use it!!!!but as far as carrying a weapon and threatening to use itu could go to jail and she would b on the streets!....if she harrasses u to the point where u r scared of her ,u have no choice then to involve the police!if u take the law in ur own hands u could be the one that looses !..if she is that much of a bully she needs help cause what she is doing is a crime!...some people just never learn and have to go back to jail....im not perfect and claim to know it all but i do know things r a lot rougher than they used to b!

Answer 3

Self-defense classes may prove useful in building your self-confidence, but I doubt they would really be put to the test. If the person was going to do any thing to you, it would have been long ago. She probably knows you are afraid of her and she gets some sort of sick satisfaction seeing you react to her.

I don't understand your mother not willing to step up to the plate to help you out. Maybe it's your mother that you need to confront if she won't help you. But, that's just my own opinion.

Answer 4

Yes,provided you have got ample time to attend the class.Please note that self defence or any sort of martial art is meant only for self defence as art which shall pay ample reward if you are able to defend yourself or to save someone in need.
Also self defence capability will enrich the human capability of Art of defending oneself- including you!!

Answer 5

You should definitely learn to defend yourself. If it is out of hand, which it sounds like it is, your mom needs to contact someone and get some type of restraining order.

If this doesn't work then you pick up the biggest log you can find and beat her *** with it. I bet she won't mess with you again......and if she does, get an even bigger log!!!!