Lol I feel more and more attracted to women not really attracted to guys anymore. I used to think I'm bi, but now I only think guys are cute, yadda yadda but that's it. I don't see myself kissing them and liking it (no offense guys) so what now? Do I tell the ladies I think they are attractive flat out? What if I am nervous? And, should I keep it a secret at work? People already ask me who I think is cute and guys have crushes on me. But, I don't like them and I'm tired of hiding this. Part of me thinks it is safer to hide it although there are many gay people I do work with and I think I would be fine. I seriously doubt with all the gay people I work with that people would look down on me. Help! Please I don't know what I'm thinking or feeling right now. I just need some kind words please.
2007-03-22 16:48:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I don't think I'm tottering back and forth. I have never dated someone and broken up with them because of my confusion of sexual confusion. They have been the one to break up with me. I really am attracted to women! Why am I not feeling any love? Maaaan, I am feeling burned.
2007-03-22 16:56:46 · update #1
lol I know I am not making any sense right now
I am a woman. bisexual. never did come out of the closet. I used to think I was bi but now think I am a lesbian b/c even though I think guys are cute I wouldn't want to sleep with them. I think women are cuter.
2007-03-22 16:58:23 · update #2
lol@mr clean commercial :D You just made my day Gregory
2007-03-22 17:04:30 · update #3
Just as fresh as a daisy!
2007-03-22 17:00:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even consider dating a man with your history. It's a crap shoot when you'll decide you were right in the first place and that you really do like men better. I sincerely hope for you sake that you can figure out who you are and stop the tottering back and forth. It'll make your life much better in the long run. Good luck.
2007-03-22 23:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by smcdevitt2001 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You always hear of how gay guys are scared to "come out of the closet" but i have never heard of it happening the other way. I think all you can do is go with the truth, I'm sure people didnt understand when you first came out of the closet but it must have worked out for you.
2007-03-22 23:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by waynersnitzel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spring Fever!!!!!!!!!!! That is it.........so you are into women than men---that is a good thang. Don't drag it into the mud by over analyzing the situation...just enjoy it and be yourself. I think if you feel the need to just let people know that this is who you are and be done with it--do it Girlfriend---be strong for yourself, because ain't nobody love you betta, but yourself!
2007-03-22 23:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by Gerry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shake your head in an effort to settle your brain in its designated slot in the hope that you'll be able to think straight.
2007-03-22 23:54:42 · answer #5 · answered by markos m 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no one who matters is going to look down on you. Be yourself in life...without that, you have nothing but air.
2007-03-22 23:51:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever makes you happy. That's what I'd tell ya, honey.
2007-03-22 23:51:55 · answer #7 · answered by JD 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
grrrrrrrrr......
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2007-03-23 00:01:53 · answer #8 · answered by †UNiQUE† 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋