whenever my brother's friend is here he is about my age and he is a perv he snuck into my room and opened my dresser and looked at my panties and my 1 secret thong and i was really embarrased
what should I do about him?
2007-03-22 16:46:41 · 20 answers · asked by Diondra M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, he is obviously doing this because he likes you. You will come to realize when you get older that boys act like that! Here what you could do,1) hide all embarrazing things he could get into, 2) Try not to get embarrassed whenhe does that sort of thing.. he is trying to get a reaction out of you.. dissapoint him... 3) Try and find something that will embarrass him just as much as he did you!!!! pay back!!
2007-03-22 16:52:42 · answer #1 · answered by lillitaamojavy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's unfortunate. It's your house, your space, your place, you'll need to lay down the ground rules or have someone back you up when you do . Your private stuff should be left alone and ur privacy respected. Embarassment is the key to untangling that mess and bringing it to a stop . I dont recommend you saying something to him yourself. I think you'd rather bring non-confrontational back-up, get ur mom, or a gf's mom, or a teacher, or a guidance councelor to sit BOTH your brother and him down side by side, and state to this boy that "This action will not happen again, and God help you if it does." Be in the room when its said if allowed and don't take your eyes off him the whole time. Don't be afraid to ask for help. You have an unlimited Army at your disposal. I know It may seem embarrassing, but you gotta end this behavior of his. Everybody wears underwear, and yours is none of his business. You'll be amazed at all the assistance of people that will go to bat for you, once you ask.
Good luck.
My son is also 13, I know boys will be boys, but I'd call him out on it in a heartbeat if he acted inappropriately in this way.
2007-03-22 17:13:20 · answer #2 · answered by DJ John C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you own a thong at 13 years old?!!!!!!!! You dont have anything to worry about, they'll forget about in no time as long as you dont make a big deal out of it. In the meantime, ask your parents if you could lock your door so this wont happen again. Boys, including your brother should not be going in your room wiothout your permission. I'm sure your parents already know that ( I hope ).
2007-03-22 16:53:51 · answer #3 · answered by FemFatale 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, everyone know if someone does that u don not kick his yoo-hoo and u shouldnt need a lock if its ur house and ur room thats ABSURD! Tell ur parents ask ur brother if his friend can stop(i am 15 and none of my friends had ever done something when i was 13 so that so is weird) and if neither helps. Talk to him then kick him!
2007-03-22 17:09:44 · answer #4 · answered by LG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents that his behavior is making you uncomfortable and ask if one of them can always be in the house while this friend is around. Or, if that's not possible, ask them if you can get a lock for your door.
After you've done this, try to ignore the behavior. He may be looking for attention and not giving him any should cause him to stop.
2007-03-22 16:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by Marie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is disgusting! ok i comprehend how men think of its cool to get.."laid" and sh*t, yet you assert it like your so proud"ok so, i'm 15. i'm a freshman and already been laid a pair cases." Sorry purely had to declare that.. you will possibly be able to desire to tell your human beings sister that she might desire to truly stay removed from you.
2016-10-19 09:43:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry hun i dont kno but maybe this will help..well my brother is 16 going on 17 n im 14 going on 15 n he brings ALL his friends which means the whole school(da whole school knows were i live)..well one day after school i was in my room changing n i didnt kno his friends were coming so i just had my brow there on my bed n my mini pj dress on..so his friends come n my room n saw my brow n i dont kno wat i did but they saw my panties..omg i felt like killin them..well i hope this works
2007-03-22 16:59:14 · answer #7 · answered by Lil Skittles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a mother of a 15 yr/old girl who was once herself thirteen, there is only one thing to do: Beat Him Up! (Then tell his Mom what he did to you.)
2007-03-22 16:53:23 · answer #8 · answered by afreeca812 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely tell your mother, this is a serious issue, your brother should have kicked his butt for going in your private stuff or in your room..there are boundries in every ones home and life..
2007-03-22 17:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lock the door every tine you go out or just embarrass him in a way that he gets so embarrased he won't ever bother you again.
2007-03-22 16:54:19 · answer #10 · answered by muziguzi23 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋