ok so my bf saw me with another boy and got mad i tried talkn to him but he wont talk to me he is acting like the girl in this relationship me and the other boy are close friends but my bf aint tryna hear that!!
2007-03-22 16:37:05 · 9 answers · asked by rockstar!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He is being a bit controlling don't you think? You need to set the boundaries now, that you can have friends and there needs to be a level of trust between the two of you. Make a point that you did nothing and you were not hiding anything from him, he saw you two and you were not doing anything so why is he mad. Unless you blew him off or something, but still you should be the one mad for such distrust.
2007-03-22 16:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by Firefly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like an abusive relationship in the early stages. It's only gonna get worse as time goes by. If he's so jealous of you talking to other guys and he wants to stop you from doing that, he has a controlling nature. I suspect that youre quite young so I will give this little piece of advice. You have a long life ahead of you so there is plenty time to find someone closer to perfect.(no-one is perfect so dont waste your life waiting for "Mr. Perfect", yet don't settle for a perfect loser either. I hope this helps
2007-03-22 23:45:49 · answer #2 · answered by live_wire100 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys are funny creatures... the only reason he is jelous is because he feels insucre about himself...if feels you dont lvoe him any more or he isnt as good as the other guy and he doesnt want to hear anything else... I think you need to find a nice way to show him how much you love him and how special he is to you.
Take him to do something that he really loves or make him dinner and have is favourite band plaing with heaps of photos of you two together every where... or something nice that he will love and know how much you love him.
also tell him how beautiful he is and dont try to compare himself with the other bloke.
You'll be surprised most guys have just as many insucuritys as us girls.
2007-03-22 23:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by Leah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for the most part, unless a person is into cheating,or playing with fire(the "just friends" thing)most guys arent into seeing their g/f hooting it up with another dude.You need to find a guy who is ok with sharing you with the rest of the male population, or you need to think about how it looks to him and how it makes him feel for you to be "close" to a guy friend when he is supposed to be your BEST friend.
2007-03-22 23:42:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess he doesnt have any female friends or else he would understand. If he wants to act like that, then let him! (this is a strategic move though) Once he sees you arent sweatin' him, he'll probably let the situation go. Oula, you'll have him and you get to keep the friend!
2007-03-22 23:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by FemFatale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really should talk to him even if he wont listen to you. tell him he's jsut a clsoe friend or even have you guy-friend tell him so. and thats he's nt looking into stealing you from him. it'll give him some reasureance and maybe he'll relax. he's just scared of loosing you or being in compitition with some other guy.
2007-03-22 23:41:07 · answer #6 · answered by Gabi. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't accept the fact that you knew guys before him then he damn sure ain't gonna want to believe there might be some after him. HE'S CRAZY!!!!! RUN! RUN LONG, FAR, AND FAST!
2007-03-22 23:42:33 · answer #7 · answered by afreeca812 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD TALK TO YOUR BOYFRIEND EVEN IF HE DOESN'T WANT TO TALK TO YOU... YOU SHOULD TELL THEM THOSE GUYS ARE CLOSE FRIENDS AND LIKE YOU'VE KNOWN THEM FOR LIKE A LONG TIME.... SEE IF TALKING TO HIM WORKS....K... =)
2007-03-22 23:44:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him assurance that he dont need to get jealous
2007-03-22 23:55:52 · answer #9 · answered by stranger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋