Im 13 and this is serious...mature answers please?

Question

ok please dont pick on me

i think i might be pregnant...or i might b panicing....well it happened on the 10th.... i was supose to get my period on the 16...i have been a little late before...
afterwords, i wiped myself off...he did pull out...and he used a condom some of the time...and 3 hours later after i got home i sat in a warm bath.
i havnt been feeling any different, but i am so scared.
i need to know symptoms that i would be noticing by now... PLEASE DONT MAKE ME SOUND LIKE A BAD PERSON
i feel guilty already and i regret it. i never realy thought it was the best idea but i did it any way
what should i do???
MATURE ANSWERS PLEASE

thank you,
dumb-*** 13 year old

Answer 1

Ok sweety,

First of all stress will delay periods.

Secondly, get a pregno test. Save up some of your allowance. There are dirt cheap pregno tests at dollar store, you know the cheap stores.

Third, if it does come up positive don't panic. Discuss it with your parents. They may want to press charges against the bf for statutory rape. Hopefully your parents won't go this far and that they are loving and understanding. You have to take a moment to think about the consequences of your actions. Abortion isn't always the right answer. I used to be pro-choice, until I had my son. You are a baby, but ppl need to face reality. Lack of parental supervision will cause this travesty. People need to blame themselves, before blaming you. Your parents will be distraught, angry at themselves. Adoption is a really good thing, you can have open-ended adoptions. Where the adoptive parents will give u pictures of the baby etc. The chances of your boyfriend sticking around are slim to none. To him, your another grand slam. Boys aren't ready at that age to settle down and be a hubby or a father. They are honestly looking for chicks with skirts and placing bets, sports, and school. Marriage is a joke these days look at the marriage rate. There are couples in America that have been getting IVF treatments for years, desprately broke trying to have a baby. Just like shopping, you can pick out the "right parents" to give your baby to. It's not about you anymore, it's about what's right for the baby. Your life is over, no parties, no prom, no hanging out with friends. Oh, another one friends. Your friends will be happy for you in the beginning, guess what just like the bf they're outa there. It's not cool at you and your friends age to hang out with a kid and a baby. You need to focus on yourself, you haven't even gone to high school yet. Your money for a car, now goes to the baby. Do you honestly think you can handle a baby with colic or serious medical problems. My 1 year old drains me every day. I'm married too!! Diapers are 20-30 bucks, if you get the expensive brand. My son is allergic to cheap diapers, so I have to get name brand diapers. My son is into everything, because toddlers are very curious. I love my son very much, and he was one of the good babies. Now chances for teens to have a not so colicky baby are slim to none. Your baby will scream sometimes for no reason. Formula, we're on WIC and guess what I didn't get enough cans. Formula costs 15-20 bucks each depending on where u live. I seriously want you to go to a baby store. Write down all the baby's necessities; crib, crib sheets, mattress, the cute bumper, quilt pack, clothes, lots of them, undershirts, formula, diapers, swings, bassinets, baby monitors, hangers, curtains, diaper pail, stroller, toys, dressers, and potty chair, shampoo, combs, themometer, bottles, nipples, extra blankets, nail clippers. Oh wal-mart doesn't have lay-away anymore. I guaruntee your parents will not want to pick up the tab. They are more focused on your education and health. You have to do so much for a baby. I was not mature at 18 when I first got pregnant, but I lucked out and had a miscarriage. I waited until I was 25 to have my first born. You enjoy it more when you are older and have more time. I suggest you visit the pro-life website, they have disturbing images of what they do to the baby. You need to think of what's best for the baby. Adoptive parents with open-ended adoption will pay the medical bills, that's in the agreement. You could visit the baby. You could select doctors, lawyers, etc. These women are angry that they can't get pregnant, and get even angrier when a teen remains careless with sex. This is the biggest decision of your life and research. Research all of the options. Don't forget, some states will come after the bf and charge him. He will be forced to pay for the baby and a dna test will be administered. The bf will most likely be screwed. He will be labled as a sex offender, because you are too young. That is if your dad hasn't killed him yet. You need to get your diploma, play sports, do something other than sex!!! Make yourself a part of your community volunteer at the animal shelter. Sex should be left to grown-ups who really know the risks. Value your body and soul. There are alot of sucessful actresses out there who don't need a man to define them as a woman. Adopt a dog/cat, get a fish. You can't take care of your pets, you definately can't take care of a baby. You need to look inside yourself and realize your a beautiful child, love yourself and a different person will come out. There are so many std's out there. Don't make your parents cry, to have to bury your body for the fact that you contacted AIDS. Okay I made my piece.

Answer 2

Wow. You are a bumbαss 13 y/o. You are 13!! I'M 13!! And, honestly, you should have kept your legs shut. You are still only a baby, like me!! A kid!! Immature and too young for a kid!! Then there's the fact that since the 13 y/o body is far away from being done developing, you can get nearly none to NO pleasure from sex... so, why'd you do it?

Next time, if there ever is, keep your legs shut and (Yes, this sounds very wrong, but), play with yourself ALONE!! WITH NO GUYS!! It's ok to masturbate if it keeps you from getting preggo!! Alright, I'm sorry if I was rude.

What you need to do is tell. Tell your mom that you had sex, (Honestly, start crying, it makes it harder for her to yell at you and get mad at you), and tell her you need help. Tell her you think you're pregnant. She'll help you, I know it's a lot easier said than done, but once it's done, and out of the way, you can really get help.


P.S., next time, PLEASE say NO!!

Hope I helped,
Dumbαss 13 y/o, but a little smarter than you.

Lol, j/k.

Answer 3

aw.. the same thing is happing to me... i only had sex with him 2 times.. the first time we had sex the condom broke soo the second time we just didnt use one. he pulled out and when he did i asked him if ne thing was gonna happen cuz the condom had sperm in it when it broke.. he said no but now i think i am pregnant.. i find out tomorrow. i thought it was the best idea as well.. only at the time..
hunny what ever you do not get an abortion.. dont even concider it.. if you ever need to tlk because i am goin through the same thing u can mail me at
[e-mail]
or im me at
fersuurexmaybe

ok good luck with u..

Answer 4

I have been in your shoes. I was 13 when I got my 12 year old girlfriend pregnant and sounds like you could be. Get a pregnancy test. Any furthur advice you may contact me email.

Answer 5

get a preg test from a store like supermarket or cvs.....test ur self....if you are preg...get an abortion immediately and stay single and no sex until you are 30.

having sex at 13 AND not using a condom ALL THE TIME is a felony punishable by the electric chair.

Answer 6

I honestly dont think that your pregent but I think that you are extremely guilty of what you did

Answer 7

Stress and anxiety will make you late. Consider this a good lesson - oral can't make you preggy