behaviors and hopefully someone can tell me whats going on with him....1-never takes responsability for his actions. 2-accuses everyone of the things only he is guilty of. 3-cant see beyond himself. 4-takes everything personal. 5-unwilling to take advice from anyone. 6-selfish.
2007-03-22 16:32:23 · 8 answers · asked by milo2angel 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I agree with the others...especially Gary - move on!!!!!!!!!!!
Don't start out in life with those traits in your guy.
Narcissisim is also a good possibility, this trait will not change. You may get a glimpse of a human in there, but only for a day. I have one in my family and it has been years, you can't change them, and they will rip you apart to the end.
Possibly is their some depression or bi-polar going on? What about mood swings?
At this point, if you are not married to him, time to move on. He won't be able to return your love until he learns to love himself in a normal way.
Sorry...stay strong and do what you have to do.
2007-03-22 16:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by turtle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Narcissism itself is a personality trait, a much higher regard for and love of oneself than for others.
People who have a narcissistic personality style rather than narcissistic personality disorder are generally psychologically healthy, but may at times be arrogant, proud, shrewd, confident, self-centered and determined to be at the top. They do not, however, have an unrealistic image of their skills and worth and are not dependent on praise to sustain a healthy self-esteem.
2007-03-22 16:39:09 · answer #2 · answered by LuvUrGirl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
His personality is obviously not a good one. You've just named everything that is wrong with him. Everybody can behave self-centered sometimes, but if he is always like this I wouldn't expect him to change.
Hopefully you aren't describing a friend or partner.
-Best wishes for you, and the guy you're describing
2007-03-22 16:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by Josh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Conclusion: He is a loser.
Hope you are smart enough to leave while you are still ahead.
There are still real men out there you know, if you look in the right places.
2007-03-22 16:39:28 · answer #4 · answered by Gary 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
all i can say.....end it. he sounds like a pig. i lied to myself for 2 years, telling myself he would change if i encouraged him. dont waste ur time on him like i did with my ex
us girls got to stick together, i hope i helped!
2007-03-22 16:41:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like my last husband. I just thought he was an ******.
2007-03-22 18:27:08 · answer #6 · answered by lucygoosy2004 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
immature
2007-03-22 16:45:42 · answer #7 · answered by Lola 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...and what are his virtues?
2007-03-22 16:41:46 · answer #8 · answered by Imogen Sue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋