What should I do about it?
2007-03-22 16:24:27 · 19 answers · asked by latoya s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You owe fidelity, loyalty and love to the woman you married.
Give your wife what she needs and deserves and she just might remind you again why you fell in love with HER.
You know the right thing to do , good luck
2007-03-22 16:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by childofthefifties 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself "why"? Are you sure it isn't lust and not love. How many years have you been married? How many children? How old are you? Sometimes men go through midlife crisis and want something new instead of their wife of many years. Divorce follows, child support and alimony. Then the realization sets in that it really isn't that much fun trying to work on a new relationship. By this time, their ex has found a new husband and father for the children. Remember that if you make this choice, it will not only affect the rest of your life but your finances and your family as well.
2007-03-22 23:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a female that is married to a male, but in love with a woman or a female with a female partner and in love with another woman? I am asking this because of the name, Latoya.
Read the Bible for guidelines on marriage and adultery.
2007-03-22 23:30:54 · answer #3 · answered by Sapphire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a divorce, your wife deserves to be happy too with someone who truly loves her, let her find him. and if that thought sickens you, GOOD. If you have kids..you should do some serious thinking about what you are doing and ask yourself what drove you to this other woman in the first place. Maybe you can fix the problem at home. If the grass is greener over the fence,maybe you need to water your own lawn.
2007-03-22 23:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by Pamela T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide if your marriage means anything to you. If so, forget the other woman, and find your way back to your wife. There were things about her that had attracted you to her, start looking for those qualities. Have an open, honest relationship with your wife, appreciate her good qualities, communicate with her about everything, find out how to please and make each other happy. If you do all this, you just may find yourself falling in love with your wife all over again.
2007-03-26 21:35:02 · answer #5 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do people even get married any more.get a divorce ,be prepared for a lot of broken hearts your wife for one who if she thinks she has a good marriage that was going to last till death do you part and the children if you have any that thought mom and dad would always be together. divorce to someone who if they love you is like death to the heart ;but you don't and can;t really care about your wife s feelings or you wouldn't of ever cheated, sad ,feel sorry for your wife, but if you don't love her let her go maybe when her heart mends she will find a new love too.
2007-03-23 00:30:58 · answer #6 · answered by deedee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop seeing this other woman and start looking for the qualities you love in your wife. Make it work. Stay together. Talk it out. Don't keep secrets. Help each other.
2007-03-22 23:28:52 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why??did you marry your wife if your in love with another woman. Don't you think that's fair to this woman that you married,.............
2007-03-22 23:29:07 · answer #8 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you weren't ready for marriage. so don't let it get ugly. tell your wife get divorced and when you feel you found the right lady, marry her. i think you rushed things and missed out which is why you 'love' another woman.
2007-03-22 23:28:04 · answer #9 · answered by John Becker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretty simple. Stop and think for a second about what marriage means. To me it means spending the rest of your life with someone you LOVE. Now what do you think the answer is?
2007-03-22 23:39:07 · answer #10 · answered by mojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋