YOu had become a "Chosen One" or vampire...and this was really happening?
What would you do, in dealing with the death of friends,and family....how would you mentally deal with this all?and why?
2007-03-22 15:40:33 · 13 answers · asked by smilingflowergirl 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Let me add, that you were very close to your whole entire family...since you were brought into this world....and were up to the days that they left you...so, how you would really feel, and would you deal? Does that help any?
2007-03-22 16:01:23 · update #1
Been there,Done that, you just Deal...
2007-03-30 12:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by lovelostboys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a vampire just had the misfortune to outlive my family. I am a sole survivor, left with a few cousins and that's it. I'm not old either just circumstances. My course of action was to get professional help and some medication, for a short while, to deal with the initial depression. Time DOES heal but never takes the place of lost loved ones. During my losses I gave myself up to my friend's love and assistance. They were wonderful but I knew I couldn't continue draining them of their kindness so I planned my future wisely. I took all avenues into consideration and choose to change ME! ! I moved, changed jobs, joined a gym, met more wonderful people, became involved with community activities and committees, and approach each day with the rising sun and thanking God for what I have now. Sometimes the nights are long but I refuse to dwell on what was and work hard on what's important today. Oh, and I avoid people who are toxic, the ones that thrive on other people's misery and drama.
2007-03-29 17:16:10 · answer #2 · answered by lindalousmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this your personal question? well i would say there is lot feelings and arguments involved in your question like: how would you feel if you had outlived all family members, that means one is not happy with only another but all those member who are family related and there is setback from the friendship comin up in this question.- well that is my guess thou.
First of you didn't mention that how long one was with the family and for what reason one had to be closest with friends more than family so i would have been able to help you exact what you are looking for.....
2007-03-22 15:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by Zenon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would have helped me if I knew how old you were; but, in any event, you must life on and remember all the great times you had with these people. Someone always has to be the last to go, and you shouldn't feel alone and sad for being that person. Try and make new friends and share your feeling with them and talk about how much you loved and enjoyed those that are gone. This is way we were given such good memories.
2007-03-30 09:34:27 · answer #4 · answered by hazel a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK if I was the chosen one I would not care about my friends or family. I would not care because Vampires do not have feelings like humans do. I would just make new friends and have people become my NEW family!
2007-03-22 15:51:21 · answer #5 · answered by sweethometexas2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lonely at first, then get over it. Last one living gets all the toys. Just like divorce or death, pick up all the pieces and start over. Remember, you got to take care of number one or two, three and four won't happen.
2007-03-30 14:20:13 · answer #6 · answered by larry m♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel Grrrrrrrrreat!!! I would make fun of everybody else and say things like, My grand momma lives longer than you, or Ive got more life in my pinkey than youve got in your wole body. Ide adventually try to take over the whole world because i cant die. It would give me something to do.
2007-03-22 16:03:07 · answer #7 · answered by Jay-V-Dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is my health like,. am I realy old or am I really old,. I'd rather be a chosen one,. I don't want to be a vampire,. that would be freaky,. It would be cool to be the chosen one,. if that's a good thing,. you would suffer a lot probably if you were that close to them,. as you say,. that would be a difficult thing to do,. or to go through,. but on the other side,. or on the flip side,. you would have a lot of wives,. and a lot of woopy doopy,. woo hoo,. alright,. allright,. yeah,. go get her,. go get it,.
2007-03-30 14:49:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lonely, guilty, lucky.
I have already dealt with many deaths within my family and group of friends. It would be far more difficult if any of my children were to go--I don't know how I could handle that.
2007-03-22 15:48:33 · answer #9 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I won't, my lifestyle is too "free" I enjoy my life, I don't try to preserve it. I couldn't handle losing everything like that, I need somebody to love and I need somebody to love me. I would die by my own hand if that happened to me.
2007-03-29 17:59:36 · answer #10 · answered by Kirstin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd probably kill myself because the people I love are the only things that make my life worth living.
2007-03-22 15:48:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋