This is embarassing for me to ask...but i've searched the net and can't really find an answer...I was wondering if any other women (or even men, i dunno) have the same problem I do. For some reason, I sometimes cry after I have an orgasm, or even during sex. I don't know why. I was never raped or molested by anyone, and my fiance is the only person I've ever been with. He's always been sweet and caring towards me, and never hurt me in any way. It confuses me so much. Does anyone know why this would happen, or has anyone else had this problem?..
2007-03-22 15:33:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Why would i be guilty? I'm 21 years old and I'm engaged. Plus I'm an atheist. I don't have to worry about the guilt of pre-marital sex.
2007-03-22 15:40:16 · update #1
Dr. Ruth I am not but..... I am gonna give this a shot
Throughout the sexual experience leading up to orgasm or just intense sex, are indicators, such as change in color, increased breathing, wetness, all leading up to intense moments of release and/or the Big O. So basically a big build up of energy. When you O or have passionate or intense sex, your energy needs to be dischargedd and different people do it in different ways, pantng, screaming, shaking and even crying.
It is awesome that you feel that intensely about your partner and are able to let that intensity out, even if it is through crying.
It could just be your body's way of saying you that was intense and enjoyable. So embrace it!!!
2007-03-22 16:05:38 · answer #1 · answered by ashleytabeling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing to be embarrassed about, i`ve heard of it & it seems natural, when you think about it. There`s a lot of energy and emotion involved in sex. When you reach orgasm it`s a huge release of both. As long as you have an understanding partner, no problem!
2007-03-22 15:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by ropar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your body is operating at such a high arousal state that it releases extra energy the best way it knows how, for you crying, but it can be different for each person. It kinda goes along with the concept of "nervous laughter." (EX. when a person knows they are supposed to be quiet and still but seem to get the giggles.) It's simply one of your body's protective services. I had a ex girlfriend that did it.
2007-03-22 15:45:03 · answer #3 · answered by peachtool 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's normal. One of my friends is the same way and it has happened to me few times after very good sex... I don't realy know why. I think it's because women are too emotional:)
2007-03-22 16:03:09 · answer #4 · answered by Deni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nothing to worry about. The tears are just a sign of intense emotion.
2007-03-22 15:41:25 · answer #5 · answered by coppersmith 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a normal reaction after climaxing. Some women cry, some don't. It effects your emotionally as well as physically.
It is normal, so don't worry.
2007-03-22 15:38:59 · answer #6 · answered by Tara662 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called guilt. Lots of people do this. If you feel guilty, maybe you shouldn't be doing it. :)
2007-03-22 15:39:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sexconcerns/0,,drpatti_76dv,00.html
Sorry, that's all I could find.
2007-03-22 15:41:43 · answer #8 · answered by dragonkisses 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u asked a DOC OR PHYSCOLIGIST
2007-03-22 17:15:03 · answer #9 · answered by tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless they are tears of joy......i dunno
2007-03-22 15:37:32 · answer #10 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋