2007-03-22 15:18:15 · 45 answers · asked by [[I am the mess you chose]] 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
look at the beautifull baby bump as i would any other mum how dare any one lable young mothers i am a proud mum of 2 boys one whom is 9 and the other is 1 i was pregnant at 16 and i tell you what i dont regret it one bit i would not tell any teenager to go get pregnant but i would be there to give my time and support
2007-03-22 15:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by www.girl2mum.com 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Nothing.
First off age can be deceiving. I look about 16 and I am 26. I would be a pity to have someone think something negative about me being "so young and pregnant" when I am damn near 30 years old.
Second, their life is not of my business, I don't know their circumstance and it is not my place to judge
Lastly, people make mistakes or just don't know any better. If my mom would not have gotten pregnant at 16 I wouldn't have my older sister. My mom was a GREAT mother and taught her kids not to do the same things as she did
2007-03-22 15:26:26 · answer #2 · answered by hollilynn 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty, I'm against teenage girls getting pregnant in the first place, since it's practically an epidemic. I see so many immature parents having kids too early and not knowing what to do. But as a Catholic-spiritualist, I've learned not to judge people either. Generally speaking, I'd try to ignore it, but I'm not too fond of it either. I'd rather know the situation first before I assume anything.
2007-03-22 15:21:05 · answer #3 · answered by Dusk 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Several things:
1. She hadn't been taught morals, or had rejected them if she had,
2.She had been raped, gotten pregnant and had chosen to keep the baby, which I applaud because it wasn't the baby's fault that it was a product of rape,
3. The fact that this world has gotten extremely sad because there was a time when unplanned pregnancy for any reason was unheard of.
2007-03-22 15:24:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would probably just feel a little bad for her, because shes younger than me and theres no way that I'M ready for a baby and she probably isn't either. i would also feel bad because there's a good chance the baby's dad will bail out if he hasnt already, and theres a good chance that the girl will have to drop out of school or give up her child if she wants to stay in school. she's in for a rough time no matter what
2007-03-22 15:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I knew for a fact she was 16, I dsay she had sorry parents.If parents did their jobs, their underage children wouldnt be having babies they arent prepared to raise.Yes the girl may "know better"but she isnt mature enough to realize allt he responsibilities that go with raising a baby for the next 18 yrs.Feedings every 3-4 hrs no husband to help,staying up all night with it when its sick, making sure it has a roof over its head, food,medical care etc etc.I dont know any 16 yr old girls who work and support theirselves on their own,with their own car,house, paying all the bills etc.
2007-03-22 15:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hmmm would probably think thats a bit young to be pregnant, but im not one to judge.
Hope she has all the help she needs to bring up this little bundle of joy. Its her choice and her life.
Good luck to her
Carla
2007-03-22 15:22:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I personally hate seeing teenagers pregnant.
I think it would be prevented if they got proper education about sex and birth control.
I use to call them s.l.u.t.s but I'm over that. I can't change their lives so I'm not going to judge....I'm an adult and I never had sex as a teenager because I was scared of pregnancy even though I was on the pill.
Anyway if you are pregnant best of luck and know that it's going to be really tough but children are amazing and totally worth it!
2007-03-22 15:24:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
what is there to think.I was 15 when I got Pregnant and there was alot of looks I got.It was my 1st time with this Guy and well I got Pregnant.My son was not a accident just a Suprise I din't know I wanted till I got him.He is Now 21 and I love Him.It was never easy but it was worth it.
2007-03-22 15:23:56 · answer #9 · answered by Dew 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would think there is a girl who should have waited until she was older to have sex. I know that to teenagers sex seems like the end all everything in life, but once they get older most rational people begin to see it in a more reasonable perspective.
2007-03-22 15:23:32 · answer #10 · answered by Bobby the Brain 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋