Alright, I am definately attracted to guys, I love them to death, and I want to marry one someday. But one of my closest friends I have known since jr. high, has made me "interested" in her ever since like high school. It's really weird, cuz I'm not and have never been attracted to any other girls. I almost always feel tingly around her and wouldn't mind kissing her, in fact sometimes I fantasize it. When we hug it feels really good when our boobs touch.. ahh but with any other girl I would be disgusted thinking this. She has sorta a low voice,,, so that may be a reason, but i dunno. Sometimes I think she has feelings for me too, like one time I was sitting on her laughing and my body was shaking and she's all like "arent you turned on, can't you feel that?" And secretly I was, but she was you know joking around. Other times she makes lesbian jokes but so do all my friends sometimes. She also hugs and strokes me sometimes... and I can't help feeling attracted toward her, but her only?
2007-03-22 15:09:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It happens. It's perfectly normal - my best friend is the same way. She's definitely heterosexual, but recently (about 3 years ago) confessed to being deeply attracted to me since about age 15, but not to any other women since. The Kinsey Report showed that very few (almost zero) people identify as truly 100% straight or 100% gay, so it's possible and perfectly normal to be just a little curved. :) Talk to her about it and see where things go.
2007-03-22 15:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Claire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me I have been there. I must admit though that I was curious about gays whereas you are almost definately straight. I think maybe it's just a teenage thing - hormones etc.
I had a friend that I was really close to at school. We used to sit together at lunch with our friends and lean back with arms around each other. It was just what we did. I thought she might be gay but she has a boyfriend now.
So I'm thinking maybe your friend might be gay inclined. It's rather hard to tell - has she had any boyfriends before? Maybe she is curious and you being her closet friend - she feels more confident trying it with you.
Maybe it's the fact that you are close friends and you feel secure with her. Maybe you just need to find that trust in a guy. I think also because you are teens you are experimenting - I know it would have helped me.
All I can say is follow what you feel. I didn't do what my heart told me to do and I suffered for years. If it gets to a stage where you muck around - do it but at the same time be sure it won't affect your friendship. Only do what you are comfortable with.
2007-03-22 22:32:27 · answer #2 · answered by gretphemelger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrlllllllllllllllllllllllll....what are you going to do??? It sounds really deep this crush--but don't fret everyone hasa tendency to have homoerotic feelings and it sounds like you want experience the pleasure of pleasuring this friend of yours....the next time you guys are alone and there is a moment when you guys feel a sexually charges energy---HELL dive right into it sister....seriously.....fulfill that need, and take in whatever essence you have from the experience...because it you don't........it will always haunt you :)
2007-03-22 22:28:11 · answer #3 · answered by Gerry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is how relationships start... You will have to figure it out as you go. You will have to wade through all your rules and ideas of what you think your life is supposed to be like. It sounds like you are open to all possibilities. Just take it one day at a time, and slowly!
2007-03-22 22:26:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal, you are awash with hormones at your age, I've heard lots of girls talk about it. Doesn't necessarily mean anything. I wouldn't get bothered by it.
Could you be bi, sure. But it's far more likely it is just your age.
2007-03-22 22:30:39 · answer #5 · answered by Giggles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋