My fiance is pregnant.
this was a bit of a shock and it took me sometime to accept it.it have now come into terms with the fact.
she has changed, become very demanding moody and always complains.i know these are all changes due to her condition.she throws up most of the mornings and seems really weak.i feel very helpless in all this.I want to be more helpful...i do all the housework,shopping,cooking and drive her around but i still feel pretty helpless and useless.could you please advice me as to how i will be able to take her pain away and generally be more helpful?
2007-03-22 15:05:12 · 8 answers · asked by kwabral y 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Oh you sound so nice! Yes, it is normal for her to be moody. The best thing you can do for her is to be patient with this and realize that her hormones are going whacko, its not easy but you'll get through it, its nice that you help her so much. Wish I had that kind of help.
2007-03-22 15:09:17 · answer #1 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I am single and was with both pregnancies. I can tell you what I could have used for help. When she is bigger, she will need someone to cook, or at least bend over and pick up the pots and stuff from low down. For now, let her sleep, do the shopping, encourage her to walk (if she won't bite your head off... remember, pregnancy is like 9 months of pms hormones.. so be warned!). Tell her how pretty she is. It is hard to feel pretty when you are getting fatter and fatter and fatter and have your face in a tiolet. Do nice things.. like bring a card home and tell her you love her. You feel pretty unlovable when you are grumpy all the time. Pregnancy is exhausting... whatever she pysically needs. Also, if you weren't happy about the pregnancy at first and are now... then buy baby things (small things.. she will want to buy big things) and show her that you are stepping up.
2007-03-22 15:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I assume she's been to see her OB/GYN or at least an MD, right? You might contact the doctor for advice. You're doing all things right - just keep it up, and realize that the entire 9 months won't be this bad....
Good luck, Daddy!!!
2007-03-22 15:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by Momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 08:39:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as far as the morning sickness goes your best bet is to try to get her to either take some vitamin b or get her to eat something with ginger in it. as far as the moodiness it comes with pregnancy!!! you just have to try to be understanding and don't take it to heart. just be there for her and make sure she knows that you are there for her and you guys are in this together.
2007-03-22 15:12:44 · answer #5 · answered by moore_256 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your doing good so far. Go to doctor appointments with her, let her sleep as much as she wants and if she wants ice cream with pickles at midnight , you get up and go get that ice cream and pickles!
2007-03-22 15:13:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you r a prince! hang in there hormones are a witch and last for months after delivery. talk through it all calmly and patiently that is ur gift
2007-03-22 16:58:36 · answer #7 · answered by coolmommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.let her sleep as much as possible
2. whatever she craves, give it to her
3. give her foot massages
2007-03-22 16:10:47 · answer #8 · answered by babygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋